The Wisdom of Solomon

The Lure of Fantasy, Proverbs 12

2009-12-17T10:22:00.008-06:00

Proverbs 12:11 He who works his land will have abundant food, but he who chases fantasies lacks judgment.

I am a dreamer and a doer. I often wonder if I am on track. Am I chasing a fantasy or am I working the land? My land is not tangible, you can't see it (when it is in early stage development). I work in the land of ideas and possibilities and work hard to bring them to reality (the hard part) so that others can work the land (the real part).

Are we all chasing a fantasy? A dream of our life and how it should be? Or are we being directed by God to bring glory to his name? My prayer is for the latter.

How do you know? It's a two-edged sword. How does one work their land while keeping their focus true to God's calling? A calling and a fanatasy are two separate ventures. One leads you and others back to God, the other leads you away from him. Dreamers and doers should hede the call and stay focused on working the land for God's glory so that in the end, it will bear much fruit for the kingdom.

"Chasing the Dream"

Proverbs 12:15 - "The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice."

Are you one who seeks advice or takes advice? I enjoy learning from others, but have found that there are many who do not seek or take advice. I've been guilty of the same. I think we have to fight the tendency of "knowing it all". We do live in a culture of people who are opinionated, argumentative and stubborn. We shouldn't join that chorus. Work at learning from others and avoid a few pitfalls along the way. Check your attitude at the door and open your mind.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Proverbs 1: The Simple Life

2009-12-01T08:04:00.010-06:00

". . . for giving prudence to the simple, . . "

Proverbs 1:4

Do you have a simple life? Life used to be so simple it seems. When I was a child, I enjoyed the freedom to do what I wanted. I had a great home, plenty of food, clean clothes, my friends, and my trusty bike that could get me anywhere I wanted to go. In those days, parents let their children out of the house for long periods of time.

My friends and I would plan our day outdoors jumping ramps, hunting in the woods, crawdad fishing, playing football or baseball, or even playing the kissing game with the pretty girls in our neighborhood.

We all have our childhood memories - some good and some bad. In reality, life wasn't that simple. My parents had to provide that carefree environment for my sister and I, many times my dad worked two jobs (thus the alone time). My wife and I try to provide a sanctuary and nurishing environment for our children. They live a more complicated life than we did as a children.

Technological advances promise to make our lives much easierer, which it does. At the same time, it seems that life is full of twists and turns and complexities. How do you deal with the many uncertainties of our age?

"You are holy" - Michael W. Smith

"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools [a] despise wisdom and discipline."

Proverbs 1:7

Are you a fearful person? Courage is not the absence of fear. I am often curious about what it means to fear the Lord. What does it mean to fear him? I believe we can get to a place of total awe, fear and trembling, and respect for the almighty. Much like the Jews who heard his thunderous spirit on Mount Sinai in the old testament bible. How do we get to that place in our spirit where we hear God, we respect and honor him, and we receive the knowledge and wisdom he desires to share with us in these times.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Proverbs 20: 90 Minutes in Heaven

2009-10-20T14:41:00.003-05:00

"Ears that hear and eyes that see—we get our basic equipment from God!"
- Proverbs 20:12

Finished reading "90 Minutes in Heaven" today. Finished it as I was donating blood platelets. I didn't realize that this procedure helps cancer patients. Procedure took almost 3 hours, but I didn't mind.

Author Don Piper on TBN - "90 Minutes in Heaven"

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Proverbs 18: Drawing Straws

2009-10-18T20:19:00.006-05:00

"You may have to draw straws when faced with a tough decision."
- Proverbs 18:18
Do you have tough decisions to make? I do every day. Decisions change the course of destiny. We are impacted by the hundreds of decisions we make everyday. Many we make without serious thought like what to eat, what to wear, which route do we take to work, what time we go to lunch, which e-mails we write or don't write, etc.

How do you solve difficult decisions? I have never tried drawing straws? Have you?

"Holy, Holy, Holy Lord God Almighty" by Agnus Dei

Proverbs 18:19 - "Do a favor and win a friend forever; nothing can untie that bond."

I love helping people. I look to be a blessing to others all of the time (of course one cannot help everybody). It is amazing to see the influence that people have (people have opened doors of opportunity for me all of my life). I enjoy when God uses me to open "big doors" (the bigger the better) for people I know and love. Sure it is a risk to help people. They might not appreciate the gesture the way you would have liked or forget your help. That isn't the point. When you help someone in need, they never really forget and neither do you. It is a bond that lasts forever. Do someone a favor today, just for the heck of it and because you can.

Check out this video I did for my new friend Demetria Dixon:

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

One-Year on the Journey, Proverbs 11

2009-09-11T09:56:00.008-05:00

"Count on this: The wicked won't get off scot-free, and God's loyal people will triumph."
- Proverbs 11:21

I started the Proverbs Journey a year ago tomorrow. I had read a book "The Richest Man Who Ever Lived" by Steven Kay Scott and decided to pursue my own journey. Over the year, God has shown me a lot about my life that has been in error. It has been a difficult walk. There have been moments where I just laid out flat on the floor asking him for greater wisdom and discernment, realizing that we are never truly wise. Yet, we are called to walk in wisdom that comes from him. I started this blog to encourage others to do the same. We are living in incredible times and our walk may seem right to our own understanding, but we may indeed be way off course.

"If good people barely make it, what's in store for the bad!"
- Proverbs 11:31

Today I heard my neighbor start a quarrel. He is blind and felt that the other neighbor had been ignoring him. It started off as a basic question "Have I done something wrong to you and your husband?" Well that led to an argument with the offending neighbor. I walked away, I knew where this was heading and it got worse. I came home to pray for him. We have a culture of "wronged" people, we seem to be looking for an excuse, any excuse to start a quarrel. I have been guilty of this too. Sometimes I do love a great argument or should I say debate, but often it is a waste of time, so why do it?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

God's Inspection and Review, Proverbs 25

2009-07-25T11:16:00.015-05:00

"It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of Kings."

Proverbs 25:1 (NIV)

I have written about this subject before. About the yearning within each of us to discover and create. We will persist until we discover. Yet many will quit on their journey. The challenges become too great to bear.

How do Christians learn to perservere to the very end? I submit that it is through prayer. We must pray daily, unceasingly as the bible commands, so that we will be ready to act when the Lord leads and directs. What is God hiding just for you? He has something perfect in mind, but he isn't just going to give it you to squander. He wants you to seek it out, then will it have the value and impact he is commanding. Journey with him, seek out his daily signs, become familiar with his ways and you will accomplish his plan for your life. You and I are so close to greatness, because we serve a great God who is mindful of us. Not some fairy tale.

"Diligence, Integrity, and Patience"

Proverbs 25:6-7 - "Don't work yourself into the spotlight; don't push your way into the place of prominence. It's better to be promoted to a place of honor than face humiliation by being demoted."

I love the idea of daily diligence. "Inch by inch it's a cinch" says Zig Ziglar. Sometimes we get overwhelmed with the tasks and the dream before us. It is best to hack at it everyday, take a rest, and back at it again. There are no short cuts. Take time to sharpen the ax. Ask God for direction and cut through the circumstances that are blocking you from God's vision. As you grow closer to him, he reveals the "crud" in your life, those things that are displeasing or repel him. Don't fear or give up, shed those things and walk closer still. He is dangerous, he is fierce, he is excellent, and he expects the same from his people. Be diligent.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

A New Direction, Proverbs 9

2009-06-09T07:53:00.009-05:00

"Skilled living gets its start in the Fear-of-God, insight into life from knowing a Holy God."

Proverbs 9:10

"Go that way!"

Do you ever feel lost? I do all of the time. I am constantly searching for the direction that the Lord is calling me to walk. I do get lost, but he helps me to get back on track. Prayer has become so important to our family, we know we have been called to a greater purpose and it does not come without its trials and tribulations. I have learned that when I am feeling lost, that I really need to kneel down, pray, and worship God and to thank him for the many ways he is perfecting my faith. I don't have all the answers, but he does. Our lives are unique and were created for a purpose. I think the joy of life is seeking out that purpose and living it out as a demonstration of God's love. Our lives should be a blessing to others. When I am lost, I wonder if I am being that blessing to others. Sometimes, I don't feel like it. Fortunately, he helps me to remember and often someone reaches out and becomes that blessing to me.

"The Wonderous Cross" by Michael W. Smith

"Live wisely and wisdom will permeate your life; mock life and life will mock you."

Proverbs 9:12

Who doesn't want to be wise? We do want to learn from our mistakes and avoid them all together. I enjoy being around smart and wise people. Those who have the battle scars, the experiences, and the temperment that comes with overcoming challenges. Are you taking life seriously? Are you a mocker? It is hard not to be a cynic in these times. However, we are not called to be cynics and mockers, but to live our lives with joy and a spirit of expectation. God has a plan and we should wisely seek after his plan and his direction.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

The Friendly, Proverbs 18

2009-05-18T08:36:00.009-05:00

"An unfriendly man pursues selfish ends; he defies all sound judgment."

Proverbs 18:1

My friend Bill Adams at "Aeros Hockey Game"

Are you a true friend or fake friend? I am an observer of people and it is amazing to see the amount of passive aggressiveness at play in this day. We have a natural desire to be social and set-up our own standards as to who will be a friend or not. True, we should not associate with those who may corrupt our character, but for the most part I have observed most just need a friend. I discovered that my friend has fallen off the wagon and his life might be at stake. I've prayed that he might call me to touch base to let me know he is okay. If you see him. Let him know I care and he is my bud. Most of my friends know that I will return every e-mail, every call, and that they can call me 24/7. How avaialbe are you to your circle of friends?

"Friends" by Michael W. Smith

Proverbs 18:12 - "Before his downfall a man's heart is proud, but humility comes before honor."

Do you know any proud people who are headed for a fall. In this era, it is quite easy to pick the "me-focused" people. You and I could probably spot one by looking in the mirror. We have to remind ourselves daily that we need to be humble and allow God to impact our focus. When we focus on him, then life makes more sense. We must humble ourselves to receive his commands.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Amazing Clarity, Proverbs 21

2009-04-21T10:36:00.007-05:00

"We justify our actions by appearances; God examines our motives."

Proverbs 21:2

I've been away, but not far off. Have enjoyed discovering God and begging him for more wisdom. A journey may lead to detours and a bit of scouting the terrain. God has given me a hunter and warrior spirit and I enjoy the chase. I enjoy the moments of amazing clarity, but even then we cannot lean on our own understing. God is fluid and moves us for his purposes. What are your motives focused on today? When we focus on self, we lose sight. God may use us to inspire others and lead, but the focus must always lead back to him. We are useful tools for expanding the kingdom. Lead by following him.

"Spritual Battle Cry"

Proverbs 21:21 - "Whoever goes hunting for what is right and kind finds life itself—glorious life!"

Are you on a mission or just passing through? Want a glorious life? How about hunting for the things of God. God has an amazing plan for each of us and it is beyond "hum drum." The most dangerous prayer, "God use me!" He will and then it will be time to hold on for the wild ride.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

p.s. Something extra:

"Do your best, prepare for the worst—then trust God to bring victory." - Proverbs 21:31

Believe in Yourself, Proverbs 23

2009-03-23T09:43:00.006-05:00

"Give yourselves to disciplined instruction; open your ears to tested knowledge."

Proverbs 23:12

Do you really believe in yourself? I had a recent banter back and forth about prayer on-line with a fellow. The commentator basically said that he did not need prayer only a belief in himself to accomplish the same thing. People may accomplish great things because of a self focus and belief, but I think they may miss something bigger. In fact, we can be way off the mark. God may see us at our true potential, but because we fixate on our own perception of who we should be, we will fail to live up to a more powerful state of being. We should instead, ask God how he would want us to journey with him to discover what he has planned for our lives.

"Child Like Faith"

Proverbs 23:26 - "Dear child, I want your full attention; please do what I show you."

Does God speak to you? Yes he does, but you may not hear him. I often don't hear him, but when I dig in and really concentrate and seek his direction, I can hear his voice. What is God trying to show you in these times? What should be our priorities? How does he want to use you and I? Will we listen?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Keep Your Edge, Proverbs 27

2009-02-27T08:34:00.010-06:00

"You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another."

Proverbs 27:17

Sons of the Kingdom, your "Braveheart" moment is here. Are you engaged in the battle? Are your spritual and earthly weapons sharp and are you prepared for the battle ahead. I love the line, in "Braveheart" when the Irisman says "It's my island!" to Sir William Wallace. Meaning, that God was on his side and he took dominion over his fear and his commitment to the victory. He called in Heaven itself to his aid, like close air support on the attack.

The bible says that our children are "like arrows to the warrior." Well, we are someone's children ourselves and can be like "laser guided missiles" or "cluster bombs" in the "theatre of operation." Or even better, like a Marine on a mission. So, that means we are a deadly weapon to the warrior who orchestrates our lives, our heavenly father. We were designed and created for this very day to play a part in expanding the Kingdom of Heaven.

What battles are you fighting today? Who can you sharpen? Tactically, how can you join forces with others to take down strongholds and make a way where there seems to be no way. God is using his men to lead, but to lead we must first follow his direction and be guided. Our challenge in this era is to become "uncommon men" (quote from "The Miracle"). How common are you?

"Keeping Sharp"

Proverbs 27:22 - "Pound on a fool all you like—you can't pound out foolishness."

You and I can't help foolish people. We need to be on the alert for those who will impede successful execution of our objectives. A fool is someone who does not take direction, is eagerly angered, makes rash decisions, and creates trouble for others. An excellent example of fools in action is the "Extreme Chase" type TV programming we've seen. The culprit knows he is ultimately going to get caught by the law, but he endagers everyone's life and property to prolong the situation. Even when they are caught, they are still putting up a fight.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.15.09 The Marathon, Proverbs 15

2009-02-18T19:44:00.005-06:00

"A life frittered away disgusts God; he loves those who run straight for the finish line."

Proverbs 15:19

The picture above is a poster of my cousin that I had created for him. He ran a full marathon in Houston several years ago. Our family was proud of him. In his run, he dedicated a mile to each of our family members (he prayed as he ran for each of us). We honored and celebrated him after the run and were very appreciative that he gave his all for each mile. He is a life champion and I admire his dedication to God.

Gianna Jessen, Survivor

Proverbs 15:20 - "Intelligent children make their parents proud; lazy students embarrass their parents."

I prayed over my eldest girl today to prepare her for a math test. I prayed that God would equip her with the ability to score very high and that she would have the desire to do well and study hard each and every day. We have to model our expectations for our children. I asked her to ask God for super natural abilities and for a desire to excel. She has made me proud by her attitude to run a good race.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Rawhide, Proverbs 14

2009-02-14T20:22:00.006-06:00

"No cattle, no crops; a good harvest requires a strong ox for the plow."

Proverbs 14:4
I am building an infrastructure for my business. I'm no cowboy, but this verse appeals to me, because it tells me I need to have cattle and a strong ox to get my businesss objectives complete. Cattle represent revenue opportunities as do crops, not to mention the food and substance for a the owner and his family. The ox are the hard workers that leverage one's own strength. So, I am praying and looking for oxen. I have plenty of business opportunities and lot's of seeds planted and as result a pending crop. The one thing I am missing is excellent and skilled labor. He will provide.

"The gullible cowboy."

Proverbs 14:15 - "The gullible believe anything they're told; the prudent sift and weigh every word."

I read recently that the inventors of the television and amplified sound both died broke. They trusted those they introduced there technology to, only to find that their knowledge had been stolen without any significant rewards for their hard labor. People promised them much, but did not honor their commitments. So, this verse cautions us not to be gullible. Test every word and verify.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.13.09 The Bright Life, Proverbs 13

2009-02-14T11:22:00.008-06:00

"The lives of good people are brightly lit streets; the lives of the wicked are dark alleys."

Proverbs 13:9
"Heart Nebula" photo by Matt Russell

I don't like to be out in the city at night. Statistics show that criminals enjoy the cover of dark and feel more free to assault, drug deal, murder, rob, rape, etc. In addition, there are more drunk driving accidents at night. When I do go out at night, I am extra viligent and alert.

People reveal their personalities in how they treat people. Some are dark and some are light. I enjoy being around positive people who seem to exude the excitement and love of life and the knowing their eternal future. They know God and it shows. They truly have a bright life.

"A Glimpse of Heaven"

Proverbs 13:11 - "Easy come, easy go, but steady diligence pays off."

My father used to tell me "If it were easy, everybody would be doing it." Meaning, that nothing worth having is going to take work. Diligence however can seem like fool's work to many. Sometime people who are dedicated are seen as being odd.

I was commenting to a few business associates about the importance of diligence. I gave a great example of opportunities that people had missed, because they simply were not good at returning calls or replying to relevant e-mails. If you do this, you are not being diligent in all matters. You never know what opportunities are coming your way and should make it a point to address every matter (a little additional effort makes all of the difference).

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.12.09 Airheads, Proverbs 12

2009-02-14T09:50:00.005-06:00

"A person who talks sense is honored; airheads are held in contempt."

Proverbs 12:8
There seems to be a lot of talking heads, but people don't seem to be saying anything really important. However, many think they are making sense. It is rampant (myself included). There is an interesting dynamic when God gives wisdom in a matter. It seems to resonate with people. When we listen to God through prayer, we learn something about ourselves and others. Communicate God's love and if necessary use words.

This example happened to our family. I was at evening business meeting when my wife frantically called to tell me the house was flooding in the kitchen. A faucet hose had broken and she didn't know how to shut the water off and she and my girls were panicking. She could get under the sink, but the hot water was too hot to grant her access to the turn knob to shut off the water. When she called me, I really didn't know what to do until I remembered that we have a shutoff valve outside the house that controls the water flow to our entire home. Within minutes, she had the situation under control and the girls (who had been praying) were relieved to have avoided the impending flood and damage to our home (me too).

Here is the real message. The only reason I knew about this valve was because some of the neighbor kids, playing a practical joke had shut off the water years before. After calling the water district, the repairman diagnosed the problem. What we the thought was an evil prank years before helped us to avoid major damage to our entire house. Because I make it a point to answer my wife's call anytime she calls, we were able to stop the damage immediately and fortunately she was home to catch this situation in time. I pray over our home daily and it is amazing to me that God provides answers, years in advance. He said nothing, but we clearly understand how much he loves our family.

"Talking Heads"

Proverbs 12:16 - "Fools have short fuses and explode all too quickly; the prudent quietly shrug off insults."

I have been guilty of having a short fuse. I am a Marine afterall. I have experienced the wrath of a drill instructors who have a short tolerance for mistakes and boneheaded moves. Unfortunately, I developed that habit as well when it came to the mistakes of other people. In the military, the mission mindset is critical. In daily civilian life it may not be so critical. So, I have learned to be a little more gracious and forgive where needed. We should be slow to anger, but we must also realize that it is okay to have a holy anger and moral outrage when it comes to the things that must change.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Hard Time, Proverbs 11

2009-02-11T20:01:00.005-06:00

"A good person is saved from much trouble; a bad person runs straight into it."

Proverbs 11:8

God keeps us out of trouble. He knows our limits. However, some people do wind up in the snare. I can personally count the narrow misses myself, yet God protected me. "There but by the grace of God go I" has been murmured by many a Christian follower. We know we have been spared and God is using us for other purposes.

One of my neighbors is doing 4 years in prison. I walked by his house today and said a prayer for him. He has been in jail now going on several months (a huge contrast from his nice home and lush meticulously kept yard). I thanked God for sparing me his fate.

He had invited me to join the local Municipal District Board and I declined (althought I was curious). The board was later investigated for fraud and two of the members were exposed in the media all over the city. I later told my wife, I am so glad I never got on the board and around the bad company. I am sure they thought their indescretions were minor at first and then it became rampant and blatant to the tune of $100,000 taken from the neighborhood. The guys offered to pay it back, but it was too late. I feel sorry for the them, but they got justice.

"Former Prisoner Testimony"

Proverbs 11:27 - "The one who seeks good finds delight; the student of evil becomes evil."

What I love about God is that he takes all comers. If you are sincere and really want to change your life and pledge your allegiance to him, he will take you in and change your life. Many play a game and want to make the decision when it may be too late. The narrow path really is an exciting path, full of mystery, hope, desire, love, and adventure. We walk by faith and not by sight and that makes all of the difference.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Be Excellent, Proverbs 10

2009-02-10T10:30:00.006-06:00

"God is solid backing to a well-lived life, but he calls into question a shabby performance."

Proverbs 10:29
There is a great song we sing to the youth in our bible study that says, "Be excellent in all your ways." I often think about that song, its meaning and its inspiration to the children. As we grow, we may lose our flare for excellence. Oh we expect it from others, but may not have it ourselves. There are many areas in our lives that require maintenance. Excellence in our marriage, our relationships with our children, our family and friends, in business, in the community, and in our health. As I read this verse, I am feeling a little shabby in some of these key areas.

"Healing Rain" by Michael W. Smith

Proverbs 10:31 - "A good person's mouth is a clear fountain of wisdom; a foul mouth is a stagnant swamp."

When you speak, blog, write, podcast, or broadcast do people respond? Are you a clear fountain of wisdom? I love to hear great speakers. I have heard Tom Peters, John Maxwell, John Hagee, Joel Osteen, Ken Blanchard, Zig Ziglar, Rudy Ruettiger, and just love the wisdom they share with their audiences. Compared to them, I am a stagnant swamp. How do we become the orators of our generation? How do we garner influence with our words and deeds? Wisdom is the great equalizer. We should approach our relationships through wisdom and prayer. We will be given the words to speak and the guidance we need.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

Death Proof, Proverbs 9

2009-02-09T14:40:00.005-06:00

"Leave your impoverished confusion and live! Walk up the street to a life with meaning."

Proverbs 9:6
I spent Friday and Saturday in Austin, Texas meeting with directors, writers, animators, and an independent record label representing over 2,500 indepdendent artists. I love the entertainment world and especially movies. I have been a fan of Quentin Tarantino's movies for some time; although, there is much controversy with his work. I admire the product of his cinema, because they are so grinding edge.

While in Austin, I visited "Texas Chili Parlor" where a scene from "Death Proof" was shot. The place was a cool "hole in the wall" type location. The food was pretty good too.

"Death Proof" is a bazarre movie for sure. A maniacle killer "Stuntman Mike," played by Kurt Russell, is on the loose. He ultimately faces justice at the hands of his supposed victims.

Movies offer us a little insight into the mayhem of evil. It causes us to wonder why evil exists and what makes people do the things they do. It is also a reminder that evil is out in the world and can only thrive when good people do nothing.

"I Was Here" BlueFishtTV

Proverbs 9:18 - "But they don't know about all the skeletons in her closet, that all her guests end up in hell."

The Christian walks leaves an impact, a legacy. Jesus's example has transcended over 2,000 years (the one name that causes much consternation). He overcame death. To become "Death Proof" we must accept the one who had victory over death.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.8.09 Private Jet, Proverbs 8

2009-02-09T13:58:00.005-06:00

"Prefer my life-disciplines over chasing after money, and God-knowledge over a lucrative career."

Proverbs 8:10

I remember gettting updgraded to First Class on Continental Airlines in 1988. I was traveling back to Texas from my base in California while serving in the U.S. Marines. My friend McKenna was a stewardess to my surprise and came to my "coach" seat and told me "Mr. Valadez, there appears to have been a mistake in your seating arrangments, you have reservations in First Class." I was really surprised and enjoyed the comforts of the leather chairs and the champagne and VIP treatment on the 3 hour flight back to Texas. What a dream.

As an entrepreneur, I am working hard so that one day, my family can have some of the comforts that come with success. However, as we go on this journey, I am seeking out the balance that God would call me to live as we plan to share our treasure, talents, and our time. How much is too extravagant?

I'd love to have a private jet for my family and friends to travel on business or leisure, but in today's economy and questions of service to the Kingdom, would that be too much? God grants wisdom in such matters and since I don't have that problem now, I won't worry about it too much.

"Rich Young Ruler" movie scene "Jesus of Nazareth"

Proverbs 8:18 - "Wealth and Glory accompany me—also substantial Honor and a Good Name."

If you are a follower of Christ, you are an heir to the Kingdom. Your wealth has been established, although on this earth you may be poor in terms of material possessions. As a child of God, we should approach life as kings and queens and seek wisdom that will only increase our wealth in the heavenly and natural world. Why does God make his people wealthy? He obviously has no problem doing so. However, when we have made our wealth our God, then he does have a problem with that. He knows our heart and the "one thing" that keeps us from being totally sold out for him.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.7.09 Making Love, Proverbs 7

2009-02-09T11:53:00.007-06:00

"Come, let's make love all night, spend the night in ecstatic lovemaking!"

Proverbs 7:19

Ah! Got your attention. Proverbs 7 warns of the seductress. She's sweet, young, smells good, and beautiful. One indescretion shouldn't matter, many say. But, that makes all of the difference.

My young daughter asked me, "Daddy what is lust?" We were watching the movie "Fireproof." A father was explaining God's standards compared to ours to his son, who was battling for his marriage. My daughter was geniunely curious about the question.

We've made no subject off limits with our young curious daughters; however, we don't give them too many details, only what is appropriate for their age. I told my daughter that "lust is looking at another who is not your wife or husband in way that you 'want them' or does not honor God." Lust is the same as adultery by God's standards.

If God's standards are so high, do we just blow them off? Or do we seek to understand his decrees and commands, so that we might live forever.

"A Recording from Hell" on Tangle (formerly GodTube)

Proverbs 7:27 - "She runs a halfway house to hell, fits you out with a shroud and a coffin."

After hearing the 19 second from hell from this video, I have to admit that I am and was concerned about my family, loved ones, and my friends. If this place is real (which I believe it is), I surely don't want anyone to be there, but sadly there will be many there who wished they had made a decision to follow Christ. Compared to eternity in hell, obedience on earth to God is a far better a price to pay.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.6.09 Two-Faced, Proverbs 6

2009-02-08T09:36:00.009-06:00

"Riffraff and rascals talk out of both sides of their mouths."

Proverbs 6:12
It has been said that we have three personalities presentations. There is the person we think thin we are, the person others think we are, and then the way we really are. Integrity is getting the three to agree and represent the real person behind the trio. Knowing this, brings the above verse into clearer vision. How do we control our tendency to "double talk" or be "double minded?" We must pledge our allegiance daily to God and look for those instances in our lives when we have obviously played both sides.

"Soldiers Under God's Command" by Stryper

Proverbs 6:16-19 - "Here are six things God hates, and one more that he loathes with a passion: eyes that are arrogant, a tongue that lies, hands that murder the innocent, a heart that hatches evil plots, feet that race down a wicked track, a mouth that lies under oath, a troublemaker in the family."

Did I read that right "God hates?" The wicked find no "quarter" (a military term, meaning surrender is not offered during battle). After reading this, one must ask why he hates these things. Wisdom comes from understanding his ways and less of our own.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.5.09 Lovely as a Rose, Proverbs 5

2009-02-06T05:29:00.005-06:00

"Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—don't ever quit taking delight in her body."

Proverbs 5:19

I have a picture on my desk of my wife when she was two months old. The picture serves as my reminder, that I am to care for her all of her days. The picture makes me smile and reminds me of my own daughters when they were the same age. She looks so delicate, innocent, and unaware of the hard life ahead (I chuckle). I feel very fortunate to have her in my home and together we have grown older and still appreciate each other through our years of battles, victories and celebrations, and sad moments in our lives. These days, they have been very fragrant and life has been so blessed as we watch our young children grow and explore their world. We hope they see the love and appreciation we have for each other, although it isn't all roses. There have been thorns along the way.

I wear my deceased father's wedding ring on my index finger as a reminder of the sanctity of marriage. My parents divorced when I was 22 (I am 43) and my mother gave me my father's ring a couple of years ago, several years after his death in 2003. I was shocked to know that my mother still had his ring.

"Addicted to Pornography"

Proverbs 5:20 - "Proverbs Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a whore? for dalliance with a promiscuous stranger?"

I recently read a book "Every Man's Battle" by Stephen Arteburn and it challenges men to control our eyes and our heart. He referenced this constant battle that men must fight. We are visually stimulated and our tendancy is to give in. Dwelling on impropriety is a distraction. I am not going to get preachy here, but a sign of spiritual maturity is being able to dart one's eyes away from sexually oriented thoughts and visual stimulus. However, there are really few prohibitions when those thoughts are about your own wife and you and she are free to love. That is the beauty of marriage, it is relatively guilt-free.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.4.09 The List, Proverbs

2009-02-05T10:21:00.006-06:00

"Above all and before all, do this: Get Wisdom! Write this at the top of your list: Get Understanding!"

Proverbs 4:7

If you are like me, then you have a "To Do List" a mile long, but what is your top priority? The number one thing that you must do every day. Successful people are 100% efficient. They complete only one very important task everyday. Everything else is gravy or a head start on other initiatives.

My one thing before all others is to pray and read the bible. I must admit that I am not 100% efficient in that dedication. Sometimes I am praying in the chase and on the run. Do you pray over your day? If not, try it.

"The Bucket List" Music Video

Proverbs 4:13 - "Hold tight to good advice; don't relax your grip. Guard it well—your life is at stake!"

Are you a risk taker? I am. Public opinion is important. When it comes to public opinion I am really only worried that I am not doing something unethical or damaging to my personal life testimony. All else is open game.

I will initiate action and only worry about those who "get it" or understand or are curious about where God is taking the idea and my life's purpose. How does God want to use your ideas, influence, and resources today? Will you risk it on behalf of someone else? Will you step in and be the missing piece to the puzzle? No risk , no reward (Know Risk, Know Reward). Jump out of the plane and wait a little while to pull the rip chord. No guts, no glory. Geronimo!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.3.09 Live Well, Proverbs 3

2009-02-04T09:35:00.004-06:00

"Don't lose your grip on Love and Loyalty. Tie them around your neck; carve their initials on your heart. Earn a reputation for living well in God's eyes and the eyes of the people."

Proverbs 3:3-4

How do you keep your psyche bullet proof in an era of skeptics, doubters, and self-seekers? The "eyes" of people do matter to us, whether we admit it or not. How we live resonates with others around. Our love and loyalty vibrates through and fortifies our relationships with God first, then people. You can hold your head up high, when you first please God. Try to it the other way around and you will be disappointed in yourself and in others. Jesus said we should "forgive." That word is on my daily planner, to remember to "forgive" people who let me down. I realize that I may have let people down myself and can only hope that they would forgive me.

"Resurrection" by Amena Brown

Proverbs 3:5 - "Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don't try to figure out everything on your own."

We sometimes only trust God with the "top" of our heart. Meaning, that we are ready to bail at the first sign of trouble. When you trust God completely, you demonstrate a willingness to weather the storms of life with an understanding that you will emerge a different person, a stronger person. God wants give us the power to overcome all obstacles and that may mean a tough road that conditions our spirit. We are never wise or smart enough to figure it all out. Trust. Your best days start today.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.2.09 The Search, Proverbs 2

2009-02-03T21:46:00.005-06:00

"That's right—if you make Insight your priority, and won't take no for an answer, Searching for it like a prospector panning for gold, like an adventurer on a treasure hunt, Believe me, before you know it Fear-of-God will be yours; you'll have come upon the Knowledge of God."

Proverbs 2:3-5
Life is a treasure hunt. We are seeking for our true calling. Unfortunately, we may get distracted along the way with fool's gold. When we make seeking God our priority, he helps us to navigate to true treasure in all areas of our life. Are you tired of digging in the wrong places? I've been there.

"Lift Your Chains You Are Free" - Casting Crowns

Proverbs 2:6-8 - "And here's why: God gives out Wisdom free, is plainspoken in Knowledge and Understanding. He's a rich mine of Common Sense for those who live well, a personal bodyguard to the candid and sincere. He keeps his eye on all who live honestly, and pays special attention to his loyally committed ones."

A blessed life is an incredible thing. There is peace, confidence, strength, joy, and laughter in the home of the wise. There is much celebration in all things great and small. Our father delights in his children and knows our greatests needs. Those things that give us hope in the future, answer the fears in our lives, and give us stability in tough tough times and exhiliration in the triumphant times.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

2.1.09 In the Battle, Proverbs 1

2009-02-03T20:16:00.008-06:00

"Start with God—the first step in learning is bowing down to God; only fools thumb their noses at such wisdom and learning."

Proverbs 1:7
You may never have to fight for your faith, but you might. When you are in the battle zone (spirituall or physically), your faith means everything. There is a saying in the military "In a firefight, there are no atheists." Their is saying among Christians, "You are strongest when you are on your knees." Meaning that God is ready to accept your petitions, hear your prayers, and is ready to dispatch his power on your behalf.

"More Love, More Power" (awesome song)

Proverbs 1:24 - "Look, I'm ready to pour out my spirit on you; I'm ready to tell you all I know. As it is, I've called, but you've turned a deaf ear; I've reached out to you, but you've ignored me."

I have been guilty of ignoring God. I've gone many years not attending church, gone to church, but didn't read my bible or pray as often as I should have. In these times, as a parent and husband and servant, I find that I must hear from God daily. I must make time for him through out the day. He has to impress upon me the things I cannot give, but through him I am able to perform all tasks he requires. I don't feel alone in the battle, but prepared to face the enemy and encourage others along the way. Lock and load.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

1.31.09 Diamond Heart, Proverbs 31

2009-02-02T19:02:00.010-06:00

"A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds."

Proverbs 31:10
Every little girl wants to feel special. My little girls are no different. They are prized and valued. My youngest will remind me every now and then that she "doesn't feel special." That is my que to drop what I am doing to remind her that she is incredibly treasured.

Sadly, many young girls lose their self-worth over time due to neglect or oversight. However, many young ladies retain their worth due to the influence, guidance, and direction of the earthly parents and heavenly father.

God gives parents wisdom to raise maidens of honor. Through much prayer and dedication a "diamond heart" is born. Still others, discover or rediscover their worth on their own. Where parents are absent, the heavenly father steps in to guide their faith and dedication. My girls love the "Cinderalla" story. A fairy tale, but a dream worth dreaming.

"God the Warrior"

Proverbs 31:24 - "Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers."

It is a great feeling to be ushered in to speak with great people. Today I met a man who a close friend says could very well be our next president. I have also met many other men of integrity, the mayor of our city, the brother of former President George W. Bush, top generals, and others. I give credit to my wife. I am a better man because of her and all honor that has been given me I could not claim without her dedication to me. Because of her, I can walk with the wise and excellent men and feel no shame.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

1.30.09 Bath Time, Proverbs 30

2009-02-01T08:34:00.008-06:00

"Don't imagine yourself to be quite presentable when you haven't had a bath in weeks."

Proverbs 30:12

Good hygiene is great advice and good for your health. Nothing like a fresh shower or bath, hair combed, fresh breath, a dab of deoderant, a clean shave, and a splash of cologne. We are at our best when we feel our best.

Fortunately, our God will take us as we are, but we must still be mindful that if we haven't talked to him in a while, we may need to ask him to wash our sin before we enter his presence. I remember a pastor telling the congregation, that when we pray we should come to him thanking and praising him, then we should ask him to wash away our sin and forgive us of our sins, and then approach him into the throne where we lay our petitions and seek his voice. You don't want to bust into God's presence without some kind of protocol that prepares you to receive more of him. Our lives don't have to be perfect to approach him. Fortunately, our God takes all comers in repentance.

"He Made a Difference"

Proverbs 30:13 - "Don't be stuck-up and think you're better than everyone else."

I don't know many "stuck-up" people personally, but I have run into business people who are very ego driven. When we think we are better than others, we lay a trap for ourselves. When I graduated from college and got my first job, I felt like I had to adjust or create this new persona. In reality, I fought this tendency the whole way, but it would creep up. Fortunately, I realized quickly that I was the same guy and was just blessed to be in a new realm and that being cordial with people, I would discover value in each person no matter their position. In fact, I have been very surprised by the power and influence of people in "low positions" and never try to make judgments about people and their capabilities. That focus has opened more doors for my interests over and over again. It is great to meet a CEO or an influential person who is very approachable. They forgive mistakes, are gracious, welcome dialogue, and treat everyone with respect. How do you treat people?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: Andy@TeamMarketingDynamics.com

"Is Your Tuner Out?", Proverbs 29

2009-01-29T23:01:00.007-06:00

"The good-hearted understand what it's like to be poor; the hardhearted haven't the faintest idea."

Proverbs 27:7

"Spiritual Blindness"

There are many fantastic and exhilirating moments we will miss in life by being spiritually blind. The God of the universe who protects wisdom and knowledge and is the giver of life, sees all things. I've always wondered why "faith" pleases him, the faith to believe that he is a good God, even when our own pondering doesn't reveal his plan. Sin deadens our senses, but a sold out dedicated love for Jesus reveals much.

We think we know so much, but the truth is we know so little about God and his plan to use us for his purposes.

Regarding the poor. I have had moments of poverty and moments of plenty. In America, our poor are rich. In reality, it is hard to even categorize many people as poor when compared to the severe poverty suffered in most parts of the world. So, if you think you are poor and struggling, you may actually be rich and not even recognize that fact. Sure people are hurting financially, but many have squandered their wealth or failed to plan for the hard times (I've been there too). We believed the hype about credit and lived beyond our means for too long.

Now, we can be in severe need and faced with few options due to lack of funds. It's in those instances that we are able to lean on the provision of a God who is trying to get our attention. When we have been there, we can relate to others and be prepared to meet a need. If you are rich in spirit, you are never really poor. God provides the richness we seek. We need to open our eyes to see what he is doing in these times and trust him with a plan that makes sense for our lives.

"Perservering to the End"

Proverbs 27:18 - "If people can't see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what he reveals, they are most blessed."

You and I have been blessed to be in business, work for a great company, or lead a wonderful organization. What is God calling you to do with your life? How can he use you to make an impact for the Kingdom where you are? I have seen many Christian businessmen incorporate their faith in their business and workers do the same.

I admire a friend of mine who has one of the most successful business radio shows in our market here in Houston. He is really good about mentioning God in his broadcasts and crediting him for such a prosperous city. He is quick to point to the wisdom of the bible and how business men and women should inlcude him in their business practices. I am especially proud of companies like Chick-fil-A, Kingdom Racing (www.KingdomRacing.net), Sherwood Pictures, PureFlix Cinema, The WEll DONE AWARDS (www.WellDoneAwards.com), GodTube, and others who are coming onto the scene to demonstrate the power of God in business. We onlyhave one chance in this life to get it right. Time to get our tuners tuned.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Seeing the Future, Proverbs 28

2009-01-28T15:55:00.008-06:00

"When the country is in chaos, everybody has a plan to fix it— But it takes a leader of real understanding to straighten things out."

Proverbs 28:2
Can you see the future? A lot of consultants and economists trying to predict the economy nationally and globally. Many seem to be leaning towards more government control. Even Google CEO is telling us to trust the government! Yikes, we are in trouble.

I don't know if Obama is the man or not. I must admit I am one of the 58M who didn't vote for him and still have my doubts. I hope he succeeds in keeping our nation safe and gets our economy humming. I think the answer should come from the private sector, not the corporate conglomerates and bloated governmental institutions, but the mom and pop businesses and those on an accelerated trajectory path who are raising capital and hiring skills and talents in demand. People need to be encouraged to start their own business. We all have the seeds of greatness, but few are offering that route to the populace at large.

If we are going to reward those who pay no taxes and those who aren't creating jobs, I think we are going to be in a tight fix. Of course, I don't want to predict anything.

"Less Talk, More Do!" Tom Peters (one of my favorite leadership consultants)

"People In China Are Starving For Your Job" by Tom Peters

Proverbs 28:12 - "When good people are promoted, everything is great, but when the bad are in charge, watch out!"

Ever had a bad boss? I have. In fact, I started my company in 1999 to be my own boss and I am tougher on myself than any I have ever had. I work longer hours, I push myself to do more, and my clients expect no less. What did I get myself into?

Well, compared to the instances of serving under a politically calculating boss, a thankless task master, or someone that just lacks professionalism, I am in heaven. I know many people who are frustrated, hate their job, and wish they were doing something else. Sadly, many of us rarely get to utilize all of our talents and skills and feel like we are wasting away. Ask God for a vision. Let him plant a seed in your heart and believe him for an opportunity. You do have a bright future, if you are looking for it.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.27.09 "So, You Want to Be Famous?", Proverbs 27

2009-01-28T12:29:00.008-06:00

"Don't brashly announce what you're going to do tomorrow; you don't know the first thing about tomorrow."

Proverbs 27:1

Andy Warhol

Have you gotten your 15 minutes of fame yet? I like being positive about the future, but have learned that you never really know how things are going to turn out. Solomon was a big believer in diversification and of course his wisdom made him very successful and famous. In an era of challenges and changes, there are many questions we may have about the future. Wisdom, it seems, is more critical in these fast-moving times. Maybe we should boast less and work more at making our dreams a reality?

"Beverly Hills" by Wheezer

Proverbs 27:21 - "The purity of silver and gold is tested by putting them in the fire; The purity of human hearts is tested by giving them a little fame."

I have had the opportunity to work with celebrities and been on TV and radio myself many times. I enjoy sharing may expertise in Marketing with others in the hopes that my advice and insights will help someone in business. I've only had one person ask me for an autograph which was kind of cool. I enjoy working with authors, media personalities, actors, musicians, and directors, etc. Most seem to take their fame in stride, others seem to forget their past.

We see the headlines of those that crash and burn. People love to be appreciated; in fact, it is a common need. Do an expriment. Tell someone how much you appreciate them and see their reaction. Now, imagine a roomful of fans and one can see how easy it could be to believe in one's own hype.

If you are on a trajectory to fame, it is important to keep your humility. Appreciate people and they will appreciate your example even more. I enjoy reading stories or seeing famous people who offer acts of service to the community, not those who use their fame to blast our country and tear down others.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Cracked Pot, Proverbs 26

2009-01-26T20:24:00.008-06:00

"Smooth talk from an evil heart is like glaze on cracked pottery."

Proverbs 26:23

I don't personally know any evil people. I'm sure we come across evil people every day and we may never be aware. I recently thought of an encounter I had with an executive that was kind of creepy. This guy was from Russia and seemed to be an oil executive of sorts. I was called in to make a presenation with some other executives from other companies (a huge round table). This guy was the lead and he had offices in Houston and New York (I read his card) and seemed to be taking "pot shots" at my discussion.

I answered the man's questions, but it just seemed he was more interested in attacking my experience than looking for a way to work together. My position was that this group called me, I was already busy. I was here to help if they saw a way for me do do so. I had worked on a few projects like theirs and they needed a solution to bring their global membership together and open lines of communication and prove the association's value to its members.

As I readied to leave, he got up close to me and he looked at my lapel pen that was on my suit and he asked me what it was. I told him it was a "United States Marine Corps" lapel pin and that I was a former United States Marine. He looked me in the eye and said "Is that so?" and "I said yes sir!" He said nothing else and just stared at me and I left the room.

I never heard from him, but I did get an e-mail from one of the team members thanking me for my presentation. She seemed apologetic for her senior member. I just brushed it off.

I don't know if the guy was evil or not, but he did give me the creeps.

"Hit Him" by Dr. E.V. Hill, Promise Keepers 1993

Proverbs 26:24-26 - "Your enemy shakes hands and greets you like an old friend, all the while conniving against you. When he speaks warmly to you, don't believe him for a minute; he's just waiting for the chance to rip you off. No matter how cunningly he conceals his malice, eventually his evil will be exposed in public."

Not everyone is your friend. Americans are very friendly, we make friends fast; however, we should be on guard. My first instinct is to trust and be friends with everyone, but I have learned that, that can be a mistake. You can even find someone who seems to be "Godly" and find that they have some growing up to do before you can really engage them properly. Some people you do have to keep at a distance and those few close friends, should be welcomed with open arms and gladness.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.25.09 Misunderstood, Proverbs 25

2009-01-25T08:15:00.006-06:00

"Don't jump to conclusions—there may be a perfectly good explanation for what you just saw."

Proverbs 25:8
Have you ever been misunderstood? If you haven't, you may be doing something wrong. I have developed a saying over the years "Your motives will always be questioned, but do good anyway." It hurts when people think something about you that isn't true. The hardest thing for people to do is change their mind, so in most cases you don't even want to try. Let God be the judge and let him fight your "public relations" battles. You will be the victor soon enough. Then everyone will understand.

"Prepare for Rain" scene in Facing the Giants

Proverbs 25:14 - "Like billowing clouds that bring no rain is the person who talks big but never produces."

Are you a rainmaker or a storm cloud? My family and my clients are counting on me to make it rain. When it comes to producing, the big lesson I have learned is you don't stop until it rains. I have had many clients quit on me before I quit on them, but that doesn't change the situation. The Lord has taught me to move past the setbacks, the disappoinments, and connect with the clients who think the same way. They realize that to do something great doesn't happen over night, we must prepare for rain and that takes work and planning.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Save a Life, Proverbs 24

2009-01-24T13:43:00.005-06:00

"Rescue the perishing; don't hesitate to step in and help. If you say, 'Hey, that's none of my business,' will that get you off the hook? Someone is watching you closely, you know—Someone not impressed with weak excuses."

Proverbs 24:11-12
The future looks promising. It has been said that advancements in all forms of technology and knowledge will seem like light years compared to the changes that have happened in the last century. Time and progress flew from 1900 to 2000. Inovations from 2000 to 3000 will be incredible, buckle your seats we are in for a wild ride.

If people are perishing on this journey, we have to do something now. How can you and I really make a difference? What is your calling? You and I have been given talents and abilities that could literally change the world we live in for the better. Before God gives us his blessing, he will search our hearts and determine what benefit we bring to the Kingdom.

"Charity Water"

Proverbs 23:24 - "It's wrong, very wrong, to go along with injustice."

People have varying views of justice, but God's view is what really matters. Many claim there is no God, yet the world they invision would not exist without evil being reigned in by justice. What are some of the injustices you see in the world? Before you call it an injustice check it out with the bible first, then get behind the cause. For example, is there such a thing as a just war? Is the death penalty right? What about abortion? Should drugs be legalized? What about prostitution? Euthenasia or Global Warming? There are many moral issues we have to deal with and sadly, many of us lack wisdom, knowledge, and understanding in these matters (including this author). Our decisions mean life and death to someone. We will be held accountable, so it is wise to discern the heart of God on these matters and act accordingly.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.23.09 The Shudder, Proverbs 23

2009-01-24T12:35:00.008-06:00

"Dear child, if you become wise, I'll be one happy parent. My heart will dance and sing to the tuneful truth you'll speak."

Proverbs 23:15-16

"The Zulu Dolls" (Jamming to Life)

Are you a nervous parent? I am. I mean I love being a dad and I hope I am preparing my children well for the future. You never really know how they will turn out. The training we give them is something we hope they keep (we should pray over our children daily). Sadly, I do know of parents who have lost their children early and it breaks my heart to think about those instances.

We almost lost our oldest due to choking. My wife was changing our new born Kayla on the changing table, Kayla was under a year old then. My wife did not realize that Kayla was chewing on a rice chex and as she laid back, it fell into the back of her throat and blocked her air way. My wife came to my home office screaming for me to help her. I thought it was something minor and it was something I could fix with a few pats on the back. What I tried didn't work.

I had to run down to my neighbor's house who was a trained EMT. He was hardly ever home (he worked two jubs to support his family). As I ran to his house, my daughter Kayla went limp on me several times and was turning blue. As I tried to help her, all I could do was say "Jesus help me." Fortunately, my neighbor was home and the door to his home was wide open. I rushed into his house without knocking and he knew exactly what to do and saved her life. I shudder thinking about it now, but God intervened on our behalf. Now, you know why I am still a nervous parent. God is good.

"Angel's Singing" by Kayla Valadez (a song she wrote)

Proverbs 23:22-25 - "Listen with respect to the father who raised you, and when your mother grows old, don't neglect her. Buy truth—don't sell it for love or money; buy wisdom, buy education, buy insight. Parents rejoice when their children turn out well; wise children become proud parents. So make your father happy! Make your mother proud!"

Are you a good parent? I bet you are. Our children are a blessing and if they turn out good, we have a lot of celebrating to do. God bless you and your family!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.22.09 The Duck, Proverbs 22

2009-01-24T12:02:00.006-06:00

"A prudent person sees trouble coming and ducks; a simpleton walks in blindly and is clobbered."

Proverbs 22:3
Much was made of the "show throwing" at President Bush at a recent press conference in Baghdad. The President's quick reaction avoided further embarassment. Many who have hated Mr. Bush for his stances cheered the assailant; however, the simpleton who initiated the attack went on to say he wish he hadn't.

"Pimp Gets Clobbered"

Proverbs 22:24-25 "Don't hang out with angry people; don't keep company with hotheads. Bad temper is contagious—don't get infected."

Should Christians be prepared to defend themselves or their loved ones? The answer is yes. You'd be surprised by how many say "No!" I feel sorry for their family members. You definately don't want to start a fight and you don't want to hang around angry people. You must however be prepared to defend yourself (possibly others) from attackers and evildoers. That is a principle that is part of a Godly heritage.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.21.09 The Plan, Proverbs 21

2009-01-22T19:22:00.005-06:00

"Careful planning puts you ahead in the long run; hurry and scurry puts you further behind."

Proverbs 21:5
"The Thinker" by Auguste Rodin

Are you a planner? I wish I were a better planner. I have been more of a "visionary." In essence, I have a clear scene in my mind that I know can happen and I move towards that picture. Fortunately, the steps have been directed by God (although I am not always obedient).

I haven't achieved everything that I have put to my mind, but I have seen many accomplishments in my life; because of my trust in the Lord. I never believed I would be alive this long (I am 43 now). As a youth, I was a free spirit and wandered where my soul led. God intervened in my life at age 17 and changed me (althought I am still a work in progress).

I don't really plan my days well, I really rely on where God wants to go for the day. I am very methodic and diligent in what I do, but it seems like God is the driver and he allows me to play a role in some really cool things. I enjoy my work and the Lord lets me meet people who are better planners than I and offer them a piece to the puzzle they have been seeking that allows them to accelerate their plans.

A lot of my plans are bigger than even I think is possible, but God shows me that with him all things are possible. I am a dreamer and a doer. I place no limits on what God can do and will do in my life. Do you limit God?

"Facing the Giants" song by Casting Crowns

Proverbs 21:31 - "Do your best, prepare for the worst—then trust God to bring victory."

Wise words. We never know what will work out in our plans. We just know that we are to do. Have you had a victory in your life lately? Are you seeking a victory? Imagine what that day will look like for you and your family and ask God to bring the victory. Hunger for his presence in your life and your days will be victorious. Do your best.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

A Bargain, Proverbs 20

2009-01-20T18:45:00.006-06:00

"The shopper says, 'That's junk—I'll take it off your hands,' then goes off boasting of the bargain."

Proverbs 20:14

My mother is a shrewd negotiator. She loves to shop at boutiques and will only pay what she thinks something is worth, which is usually way below what the seller thinks it is worth. Somehow, she winds up getting her way.

This verse is a great reminder. If someone is talking really bad about something you are selling them, then they may really value it. Maybe it is wise to stick to your guns and sell it for what you think it is worth or more.

"Spiritually Immature People Seek Revenge"

Proverbs 20:22 - "Don't ever say, 'I'll get you for that!' Wait for God; he'll settle the score."

Are you a revenge seeker? I've never said this to anyone that I can recall, but I must admit that I may have wished that God would zap a few people. Thankfully, he hasn't listened to me in my flashes of anger against another. We must look to the future and understand that God is working in each of our lives. So, if someone harms you, it may be tough, but we must forgive. Sure there are times when justice must prevail and your legal rights may need to be enforced. Seek counsel in those instances, but most things that happen to us don't require action, only forgiveness.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.19.09 Lift the Fork, Proverbs 19

2009-01-20T11:35:00.008-06:00

"Some people dig a fork into the pie but are too lazy to raise it to their mouth."

Proverbs 19:24
Ever heard the old saying "I'll take a stab at it" or "I'll try"? This is the same thing as the verse above. These are people who put forth just enough effort, but don't complete the task at hand. I have been guilty of this myself, but am working harder and harder at completing the job. When I hear someone tell me they are going to "try," I know they aren't.

I have a hard time with people who rarely return calls or reply to e-mails that concern them. So many people cost themselves opportunities. It is rampant!

I was challenged by a business owner I respect who asked me to be sure and remind people to capitalize on their opportunities fully. So, I have written and talked about this subject in the media. "Lifting the fork" could be as simple as calling a few people back. Speaking of, I have some phone calls to make and a few e-mails to reply to.

"Rudeness"

Proverbs 19:29 - "The irreverent have to learn reverence the hard way; only a slap in the face brings fools to attention."

Know any rude people? I've been rude on occasions and I have to repent in those instances. We sometimes call it having a "sense of humor." Sure we should be willing to laugh at ourselves, but laughing at others won't get us very far.

My wife and stopped into a wine business in Fredricksburg, TX and the lady behind the bar was really short and rude with people. She seemed very unhappy to be serving her customers and it looked like she was the owner. She poured quickly and avoided small talk with her clients. We actually saw her get very argumentative with a couple. The lady wine taster, was so upset by the barkeep's demeanor that she walked out. The snobbish bar tender kept herself entertained with the flury of people who popped in, but we could sense that she probably won't have her business for very long. Word of mouth travels fast.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.18.09 Crushed, Proverbs 18

2009-01-20T09:46:00.006-06:00

"A healthy spirit conquers adversity, but what can you do when the spirit is crushed?"

Proverbs 18:14

Have you ever been crushed? I have, many times. In those moments, I have found God there to carry me through.

I remember losing an opportunity in the United States Marine Corps. I had been selected for an Officer program that I had worked hard to get. I had my heart on training to fly the attack helicopter, The AH-1W Super Cobra.

I remember when I first heard the sound of the Cobra on Camp Pendelton in 1988 (it was loud) and I was impressed with all of the battle gear and technology that came with it. This was my dream and my wife and I were looking forward to the "Officer and Gentleman" moments that would materialize in our lives (after 3 years of hard work to get accepted into this program). Sadly, I was notified that 6 of us had been cut from the prestigious opportunity, before we even had a chance to become officers. I was crushed and I was even more saddened to have to tell my wife the bad news. In all honesty, I thought she would leave me. Have you ever been so crushed, that you thought your life was basically over? God has a plan.

Shortly after getting the bad news, we went to war and have been at war ever since. So, I look at my life now and I wonder if things worked out for the best afterall. I have a great family and wonderful opportunities to do more for the Kingdom on the front lines.

"Hope Lifts"

Proverbs 18:15 - "Wise men and women are always learning, always listening for fresh insights."

Do you love to learn? I love to read books, watch movies (from a Market research point of view), and keep up to date on what is happening in our world in all forms of media (i.e., print, radio, TV, social media, etc.). I especially enjoy working with children who have a zest for life. Fortunately, most of us never lose our child-like qualities.

A friend of mine who has a client that has built a chain of successful restaurants. He claims that he, got many of his ideas from his children. As a result, many people now have nice places to take their family. Ideas are very valuable to me. I have found that an idea is worth $10 or $10M, depending on the eye and the mind of the beholder.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.17.09 Past Due, Proverbs 17

2009-01-19T20:17:00.006-06:00

"It's stupid to try to get something for nothing, or run up huge bills you can never pay."

Proverbs 17:18

Are you laden with debt? I hope not. My wife and I put each other through college and had to carry a certain amount of debt for a while. Fortunately, we are out of debt and feel very fortunate to be able to breath a little better knowing that we have no car payments or credit card bills that we have to face every month. There was a time, when we "charged" or were living beyond our means. With kids around, we still feel the financial pressures, but God has provided. Need to get out of debt? Seek advice and counsel and then stick to your plan.

"Eliminating Debt"

Proverbs 17:27 - "The one who knows much says little; an understanding person remains calm."

In sales, there is a time when the salesman must shut up. This moment comes right at the time when the prospect is ready to buy. Say something at this moment and the sale can go right out the window. It isn't natural to have silence. Our inclination is to talk in those instances. Try saying fewer words in your next interaction. I think we learn more by listening, but our inclination may be to talk. I am guilty of this too often, but I am learning.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.16.09 Mensch, Proverbs 16

2009-01-19T19:20:00.007-06:00

"A wise person gets known for insight; gracious words add to one's reputation."

Proverbs 16:21
I enjoy being able to offer Marketing advice that is helpful to my clients, friends, and family. God has given me a gift to understand the times through my studies of media in all forms. The pyschology of the age is something I have been able to glean from from my constant review of the news, reading of books, watching movies, reviewing websites, radio talk shows, social media, etc. The right idea or recommendation at the right time can make all of the difference in the world.

Having a network of clients who can depend on my recommendations has earned me favor. In essence, by focusing on serving and being a giver, I have found that more doors are opening faster than I can keep up. I especially value those friends who can give wonderful advice to me. I keep those friends close.

"6/7 Factor"

Proverbs 16:26 - "Appetite is an incentive to work; hunger makes you work all the harder."

I still remember the best hamburgers I have ever tasted. My sister and I would mow yards together in the mid 70's. After completing our job, we would ride our bikes to the local Dairy Queen, where we ordered large Root Beers, Hunger Busters with Cheese, and fries and onion rings. She and I would always find a way to make money so we could go do the things we enjoyed. We would often hang out at the mall playing arcades, go to the movies, have a large cheesy pizza, or an occasional rock concert to include the t-shirt that we wore to school. Those were the good old days. What are you hungry for? Has work gotten humdrum? Dream bigger!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.15.09 The Flourishing, Proverbs 15

2009-01-19T18:26:00.006-06:00

"The lives of God-loyal people flourish; a misspent life is soon bankrupt."

Proverbs 15:6
"Flourish" fractal art by Vicky Brago-Mitchell

How are you investing your life? Where is your loyalty? To men or to God? Saw a great movie starring Steven Baldwin called "Cutaway." This movie challenges the psyche of a prominent skydiving team and their quest to go faster and to cutaway anything that keeps them from following their dream. As Christians, we should be prepared to cutaway that which keeps us from flourishing in his grace. In our loyalty to Christ, we are able to enter into the realm of the seemingly impossible.

"Glorious God"

Proverbs 15:33 - Fear-of-God is a school in skilled living—first you learn humility, then you experience glory.

We serve a glorious God who excells at building and molding glorious lives. Has God touched your life in so many areas, that you truly feel alive and blessed? Are you happy to be living out what he has called you to do? If not, what is holding you back? What do you see God doing for you and your family? What do you dare ask of him? "God use me" is the most dangerous prayer. Are you ready to cutaway?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.14.09 Fan the Flame, Proverbs 14

2009-01-15T05:41:00.009-06:00

"The mark of a good leader is loyal followers; leadership is nothing without a following."

Proverbs 14:28

Are you leading and are you following the right people? I am constantly in the search for new mentors and value what leaders are doing to impact our culture for the Kingdom and in business.
One of my daily mantras that I put in my Outlook daily reminder is "I lead by example." Some days my example is not the best, but others are moments to celebrate. Do you have a following? Everyone has a following, but why are they following is the test. Are they following because they have too? How do you inspire people to follow you? There are several areas to demonstrate leadership. One can be a leader in the community (on-line and offline), at home, in business, in close friendships, in the neighborhood, and with family.

"Joseph" Modern Day Version (BlueFishTV)

Proverbs 14:10 - "The person who shuns the bitter moments of friends will be an outsider at their celebrations."

Is there a friend who needs a word of encouragement? Most people stay away when times are tough. Reach out to someone today, just to let them know you were thinking about them. We all go through tough times and you never really know who is facing a real challenge. Your words have a way of blessing people and you may never even knoew it!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Rich Life, Proverbs 13

2009-01-13T20:37:00.006-06:00

"The rich can be sued for everything they have, but the poor are free of such threats."

Proverbs 13:8
In a litigous society, rich people had better be worried. It costs nothing to tie up one's resources and put the rich person on the defensive. The "drain chain" can be a catastrophe in the making. It has been said that "Rich people rarely sue each other." Why would they? Nobody wins.

I guess this is great advice for the wealthy. The richer you get, be sure to get a great great team of lawyers, you may need them.

"Rudy!"

Proverbs 13:12 - "Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick, but a sudden good break can turn life around."

Are you on the cusp of a lucky break? You just know in your heart, things are going to work out. Don't quit. Hang on, pray and walk through to victory. I am really excited by what God is doing in my life right now. Good friends haves said things to me that have been a blessing and they don't even know it. It is like God gave them a message for me that I needed to hear. I feel that a "sudden break" is pending, even thought it has taken years! How are things going with you? Is your break just around the corner?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Collapse and Ruin, Proverbs 12

2009-01-12T20:00:00.007-06:00

"What the wicked construct finally falls into ruin, while the roots of the righteous give life, and more life."

Proverbs 12:12

It has been said that success is built on failure. The object is to fail faster and faster until one becomes a success in business, science, and/or in life! This verse offers encouragement for those with a champion's spirit. It recognizes that you will fail and it will seem that you are without remedy, but ultimately the Lord will help you to offer life giving fervor to those around you. It says the "wicked" will ultimately fail, not the righteous.

"Measured Success"

Proverbs 12:15 - "Fools are headstrong and do what they like; wise people take advice."

Are you head strong? I may be. Marines are taught to take charge, move forward, and take the hill (I am a former Marine). Americans are self-reliant. It seems that most people don't want to hear advice or take it. I think this verse cautions us to check our motives. Are we being head strong, when we should stop and heed valuable advice. When we don't listen to our trusted advisors, we may cost ourselves and others valuable opportunities.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.11.09 Commerce, Proverbs 11 (The Message Translation)

2009-01-11T20:53:00.006-06:00

"God hates cheating in the marketplace; he loves it when business is aboveboard."

Proverbs 11:1

"I've got my mind on my money and my money on my mind" - Snoop Dog

My pastor says there are more that 2,000 verses in the bible that talk about money. It is a hot topic. We are emotionally tied to our money. If you don't believe me, try thinking of a life without it. I have worked with the homeless and they have been stripped of everything, their home, their pride, their self-confidence, and their money.. A recovering homeless person is an amazing person. It is great to see their lives restored and a faith that is sold out for God and his glory.

Money is a tool and we are constantly thinking of ways to make it and keep it. The bible is very educational about how to handle money, how to give, and sound business practices for those who are more interested in having a wholesome life over one that is focused on material possessions. Are there rich Christians? You bet. God blesses his people for his purposes.

He clearly wants Christian business and all business people to be above board.

"Shindler's List" ("I could of done more.")

Proverbs 11:26 - "Curses on those who drive a hard bargain! Blessings on all who play fair and square!"

Are you a generous person or are you tight? I avoid "stingy" people and would rather work with a generous person and try to be generous myself. For example, my yardman has been cutting my yard for over 10 years. When he gave me a quote, he told me he would edge, cut, and bag my grass for $25 (I have a really big yard, over 8,000 sqft).

Well, I added up the cost for me to do it in time, maintenaince, fuel, rest I needed, and the loss of income I would not have by not being available to do what I do best. His price was a bargain. I told him I appreciated his offer, but I would like to pay him $40. He was very happy to accept my offer and I was very happy to give it.

I have overpaid him by about $5,000 over the years (just added it up). I have been happy with his service and have seen him pick up 5 of my neighbors yards. He has also served them reliably over the years. I have met his family enjoy when he comes over to cut our yard (fresh and new). I love doing yard work my way, I just write a check and it is done. It feels great to be a blessing to others. Is it time to give your yard man a raise?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.10.09 Eye to Eye, Proverbs 10 (The Message)

2009-01-11T08:16:00.012-06:00

"An evasive eye is a sign of trouble ahead, but an open, face-to-face meeting results in peace."

Proverbs 10:10
People rarely see "eye to eye" on important matters. Our biases, distractions, agendas, fears, emotions, ego, and lack of wisdom gets in the way. We may trust others quickly, not trust others at all, and may be so focused on ourselves that we miss a friendship that could last a life-time.

I've adopted a new saying to help my clients understand what I am looking for in new business relationships. I tell them I am looking for "Needles in a needle stack." In particular, I am looking for silver, gold, or platinum needles." I want battle tested, long-term thinkers, and people willing to shed their agendas to accomplish something great. Now that I know what to look for, it is easier to determine when I come across those people.

"I will I trust" by Colorz of Heaven

Proverbs 10:16 "The wage of a good person is exuberant life; an evil person ends up with nothing but sin."

When we leave this earth, how will people remember us? Were we exuberant? Were worth remembering or misunderstood? My pastor says we should first seek to understand and then to be understood.

An exuberant life sounds wonderful. Do you know exuberant people? The people that seem to always be full of life and excited about the people they know and love. It is contagious to be around exuberant and enthusiastic lovers of life. Are you dull and boring or someone who inspires and encourages? I know soft-spoken people who exude and resonate life in their voice. Exuberance doesn't have to be outlandish it can be in measured speech, but laughter and a smile go a long way. Want to see exuberance in action? Take a look at children at play with other children.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.9.09 Arrogant Scoffer, Proverbs 9

2009-01-10T04:35:00.009-06:00

"If you reason with an arrogant cynic, you'll get slapped in the face; confront bad behavior and get a kick in the shins."

Proverbs 9:7

Have you been around cynics or scoffers? I found a quote on-line that read somethig like this, "Arrogance is a medicine that dulls the pain of one's ignorance." It is usually called an ego or super ego.

I really don't know that many people that are what I would consider arrogant, but recently ran into a guy who made a judgment about me that he couldn't shake. I tried to explain my oversight, but it only came after several e-mails back and forth (the guy did not want to talk on the phone). So after a few kicks in the shins, that matter was resolved and I have learned my lesson and will make sure I know who I am dealing with before I present an opportunity or an idea.

It is hard not to be selfish. Our psychological muscles are trained to preserve our own interests over others. Our egos drive the day. How do we train ourselves to focus on others; especially, when all they care about is themselves? Jesus did an incredible thing for us. He gave of himself to the point that it cost him his own life. The most dangerous prayer according to Rick Warren, Pastor of Saddleback Church and author of "The Purpose Driven" life is "God use me!"

When God uses you, you will find mockers, arrogant people, and fools that you must contend with, but it doesn't make you better than them. Do good anyway!

"Give Your Life Away"

Proverbs 9:8 - "So don't waste your time on a scoffer; all you'll get for your pains is abuse."

My tendency is to want to confront scoffers. I just want to tell them "You don't know me and you don't know my relationship with God!" Whenever I detect a cynic, I avoid them like the plague. Scoffers can come from family members, friends, business associates, neighbors, etc.

Find a core group of people you know and trust and nurture those relationships. A real friend is someone you can call 24/7 and they will take your call and want to know how they can help. Better, be that friend to others. Your close friends will help you to deal with the "flakes" and the "naysayers" that come along. Remember, they don't know you and they don't know your relationship with God.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

1.8.09 At Wisdom's Door, Proverbs 8

2009-01-09T05:09:00.006-06:00

"Does not wisdom call out?"

Proverbs 8:1
"Wise Solomon" painting by Lars Justinen

The more I read Proverbs, the more I realize what a fool I have been most of my life. It is a shocking look in the mirror, but the image is getting better with each dedicated day of focus (or at least I think I am making the wise choice to to invest time on this travel). I love this photo of Solomon. It just radiates the fullness of Solomon's journey with Wisdom, a blessed life, a continual learning, and hearing from God.

As I was reading Proverbs 8, I felt close to discovering something very powerful that I could apply to my life. I wanted to follow Wisdom at the door and was curious and hungry to know what God wanted me to do, to learn, to experience, to trust him for today.

The "Message" translation of Proverbs 8 is very vibrant, proving that wisdom is the giver of life. An abundant life, offering substantial honor, wholesome talk, and great counsel. Our lives are so orchestrated to give us maximum opportunity to make an impact in the world. What are you most excited about today? What is God doing in your life that you can brag about? Boast on the Lord today!

"The Solomon Portfolio" with Pat Roberts and Robert Katz, CPA

Proverbs 8:18 - "With me are riches and honor, enduring wealth and prosperity."

One t rillion dollars is about to hit our economy. Yikes! That is a lot of enchiladas. What is your outlook on the economy? What financial wisdom do you need today and coming weeks, months, years, and decades?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Lady Danger, Proverbs 7

2009-01-07T18:46:00.006-06:00

"Say to wisdom, 'You are my sister,' and call understanding your kinsman; they will keep you from the wayward wife with her seductive words."

Proverbs 7:5
There must have been many wayward wives back in the day of Solomon. Just like today. Where there are wayward wives, there are wayward men. Solomon makes a point to repeatedly warn against adultery and staying away from that danger.

I was watching TBN the other day and Pat Robertson was answering guestions from the viewers. One young man asked if it was a sin to have an affair with another girl even though he wasn't married, but had a girlfriend. Pat just shook his head and said "Young man, you have many problems. Sex outside of marriage is sin."

That is a hard pill to swallow in this day and age. His lady co-host chimed in and said that the guy just showed how "unscrupulous" he was. Meaning that his integrity was tied to his sexual behavior.

If God calls sex outside of marriage a "sin" I really can't argue. I am thankful to be in a committed marriage and not having to deal with the "dating" issues of the day.

"75 Year Wedding Anniversary" Wedding Vows

Proverbs 7:25 - "Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths."

We are a soceity who believes in the "greater good". Many liberal ideologies are based on this premise, but many of the liberally minded fail to acknowledge biblical principles that truly set the "greater good". Even logic doesn't allow them to fathom the error of their decrees and beliefs. That is called a "spiritual blindness" among believers.

The notion that "abstinence" and "fidelity" strike many as "backward thinking" (not "progressive"); however, the "good" that is promoted actually causes much harm (i.e., hurtful relationships, diseases, jealousy, lower moral standards, deviancy, shallowness, etc.). I think Solomon warns us, that our "moral compass" is swayed and pulled away from the voice of God when we open up our heart to the "waywardness" of our nature.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

In the Day of Disaster, Proverbs 6

2009-01-06T21:24:00.008-06:00

" Go to the ant . . . yet it stores its provisions in the summer and gathers its food at harvest . . "

Proverbs 6:6-8

Meals Ready to Eat

Do you have a disaster readiness plan for you and your family? It seems that a disaster is always just around the corner. Fires, earthquakes, hurricanes, snow storms, threats of terrorism, power outages, etc. I think it is wise to have a plan for back-up. There are various websites that will help you do this to include FEMA.

Our family has a disaster plan. We learned our lesson during Katrina and had a plan for Ike which includes MRE's, water supplies, communcation sources (i.e., portable radio, TV, and Twitter.com), bedding, first aid, back-up fuel plans, and home and personal protection.

I still need to put some things together like in this video below.

"Emergency Preparedness" - Bug Out Bag (BOB) - TacticalPodcast.com

Proverbs 6:15 - "Therefore disaster will overtake him in an instant; he will suddenly be destroyed - without remedy."

You may run into scoffers if you plan for disaster. Fellow believers may view you as not "trusting" God. They forget verses in in the bible that tell us it is wise to plan for disaster. The food we have reserved for disaster is not our everyday food. We don't concern ourselves with what we will eat today, nor in times of disaster. Take care of your families, we do live in dangerous times and in times of chaos, water, food, and fuel are in short supply. Better to have a plan.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Cheaters, Proverbs 5

2009-01-05T18:40:00.008-06:00

"I have come to the brink of utter ruin in the midst of the whole assembly."

Proverbs 5:14

Joey Greco host of "Cheaters"

I must admit that I occasionally watch this TV show (so I am not alone, I have provided a link for you too). It is heart-breaking for the one being cheated on. I remember being cheated on in the 7th grade, by my beautiful girlfriend. I was the last to know. I was crushed and had a hard time trusting girls from then on (until I met my wife).

"Cheaters" is unique in that it catches the "cheaters" in the act. Many times the deed is caught on camera where even the best of liars have no way out. It is hard for a culprit(s) to deny his or her own naked butt on the viewer screen.

Now, to have one's infedility broadcast on national TV is ultimate justice. The cheaters never think they will ever get caught, but they do.

Why is fidelity so important to God? This is a question worth pondering. We see the damage infidelity leaves on families and relationships. The hurt, the despair, and moral failure that is hard to recover from. Before you cheat, imagine the world finding out and think about God who observes everything, even when "Cheaters" is not around.

"Cheaters" Episode

Proverbs 5:21 - "For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all his paths."

I don't know what judgment day will be like for the unforgiven, but I can imagine it will be uncomfortable. We just aren't smart enough or have the moral righteousness to deal with the crud of our own lives and the ramifications of our decisions on ourselves and others. Like one giant lawsuit one's whole life.

I have always been curious about the era of sacrifice for sins. Heard on TV today that Solomon sacrificed over 22,000 bulls at the opening of the Tabernacle he built for God. Now, to think that God sacrificed his own son for us, is incredible. If we accept Christ, then we are called to be faithful, dedicated, focused, honorable, and holy. That is a tall order. If we cheat, the stakes are high and there is always a cost. I hope you never see me on "Cheaters" and worse, I hope I never see you.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Earn This, Proverbs 4

2009-01-04T11:54:00.008-06:00

"Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you."

Proverbs 4:6
Life is a waging war. In John Eldredge's book "Epic", he reveals that humanity is at war with evil and we have entered the scene of a fallen world in the midst of the chaos and danger. We have been protected and isolated from the ravages of destruction; although, it is never really far away (just watch the news on any given day).

We have been blessed with plenty and the protection of the hand of God. I pray over my children daily that they would be spared a life without freedom and safety. I pray that they will make good decisions and always be under the protection of the almighty. If there is a waging war in our midst, are we equipped to fight it? Will we earn what others have already sacrificed?

"Saving Private Ryan" Normandy Cemetery Scene

Proverbs 4:14 - "Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evil men."

Have you ever walked in the path of the wicked? I know my sins have been forgiven, but I do get flashes from the past that remind me, just how easy it is to sin. I wish I could take all of the pain away and do the right thing, but time has passed and the only thing I can do is work to avoid similar situations in the future. We are so innocent in our own eyes, we are oblivious at times to the hurt we cause in others. Our natural propensity is to see ourselves in a good light.

According to Solomon, even a righteous man sins against God and he warns about being too righteous and risk destroying one's self (Ecclesiastes 7:16).

"The man who fears God will avoid all extremes."

Ecclesiastes 7:18

Life is a balance.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Built to Live, Proverbs 3

2009-01-03T20:32:00.009-06:00

"My son do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years . . ."

Proverbs 3:1

"Isolated DNA"

Advances in science and molecular biology have lead to longer life. Eating, breathing, working, and procreating is not really living (there is lot's more to life for sure). Our hearts and minds were created to thrive in a realm that celebrates the author of the universe. The more we know, the less we realize that we know about our creator. Wisdom offers us a chance to glean the ways of a just God, one who delights in a challenge. A God who values honor and integrity and those who seek out knowledge and wisdom and his ways. Our journey never stops, there are more realms to discover.

"Intelligent Design" The DNA Dilemma

Proverbs 3:16 - "Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor."

Want to live longer? Who doesn't? Many baby boomers now in their 60's are worried about their health and the number of their days. We are never promised any more days than what we have been allowed, but God clearly says that he is prepared to extend our days. Why would he do this? I still don't understand why he cuts some lives short and gives more days to others. That will remain a mystery.

A summation of life by Solomon:

"Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter. Fear God and keep his commands, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing whether good or evil."

Ecclesiastes 12:13

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Edge of Eternity, Proverbs 2

2009-01-02T21:18:00.006-06:00

"He holds victory in store for the upright . . ."

Proverbs 2:7
"Edge of Eternity" by Dave Makin (using mathematical fractals software)

Do you live on the edge? This term is usually reserved for visionaries and juggernauts. I remember a "hot shot" sales representative tell some of his associates, in an effort to motivate them, that "If you aren't living on the edge, you are taking up too much room."

A Christian "on fire" for God realizes that he is living on the edge of eternity, pushing and expanding territory for the kingdom. Interestingly, this focus applies in business, in ministry, at home, and in the community. If you don't feel under attack in your efforts, then something may be wrong. When we attempt to do the miraculous, we find ourselves depending more and more on God's direction and when we are showing signs of success, the enemy must try to contain the advancements. According to the prayer of Jabez, we need protection from the enemy. We don't want to fight the battle ourselves, we want to create skirmishes and walk in the protection of the almighty.

"The Prayer of Jabez" I Chronicles 4:10

Proverbs 2:20 - "Thus you will walk in the ways of good men and keep to the paths of the righteous."

We want to seek God's protection and walk in his blessing. I love the quote from General Patton "Your job is not to die for your country, but to make the other dumb bastard die for his." We want to avoid evil, to avoid harm, but we want to advance in the battle realizing that God is with us and leading the way. Is he expanding your territory? With more territory comes more responsibility.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Journey Continues

2009-01-01T12:16:00.005-06:00

I apologize for dropping off the scene. My family and I have been on vacation and without an internet connection. I brought along plenty of reading material, but have spent a fair amount of my time slumbering. I guess the work schedule has caught up with. Been a great time of rest, travel, and family time.

We stayed at a vacation rental in Wimberley, TX where we saw plenty of wild game to include 30 wild turkey one early morning. We have visited Fredricksburg, Johnson City, San Marcos, and now College Station.

I've been reading "The Richest Man Who Ever Lived" by Steven Kay Scott who documents his own Proverbs Journey. Also found a copy of "The Prayer of Jabez" at a dollar store in San Marcos. Hope you have a great New Year!

I should resume bloggging 1.2.09.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.24.08 A Fat Soul, Proverbs 24

2008-12-25T07:18:00.007-06:00

"If you falter in times of trouble; how small is your strength."

Proverbs 24:10

My wife gave me a book for Christmas "The Richest Man Who Ever Lived" by Steven Kay Scott, the man who inspired my own 2-year journey through Proverbs. I am thoroughly enjoying reading it. He has offered many new insights into how one reads and interprets the writings of Solomon.

Solomon talked of having a "fat soul", a soul that is mature, capable, and has strength. It is the true measure of a man or woman. Finally, Solomon ran many empires and kingdoms and employed over 12,000 horesemen and had dug over 1,000 mines. In today's terms according to Mr. Scott, Solomon would be a trillionaire! So, many of Solomon's verses have to do with the work and effort of digging those mines, growing a kingdom, seeking counsel, work, and the purification process of precious metal to demonstrate one's life achievements.

Finally, many of the Proverbs are dual in meaning. When read on face value, the verse conveys a powerful meaning and when read conversely reveal an additional truth. Here's to soul fattening, it adds no calories to the body!! God bless.

"Solomon's Mines Discovered"

Proverbs 24:33-34 - "A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest - and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed man."

Our natural tendency is the path of least resistance. Solomon warns against this. One can work hard and one can work smart. Diligence is the active daily, thoughtful approach to one's business and life. You can take a hammer to a tree and take forever to hack it down or you can use a chainsaw and have it cut down in minutes. We are to be on the move, getting things done, and having our work be like fine gold and silver.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Wore Out, Proverbs 23

2008-12-23T04:57:00.006-06:00

"Do not wear yourself out to get rich, have the wisdom to show restraint."

Proverbs 23:4
The new American dream is to own one's business. There are many reasons why someone would want to own a business - independence, financial security, fulfill a spiritual calling, advance the kingdom, a passion of creating something truly remarkable, new positive relationships, and recognition for one's accomplishment. Business startups are at an all time high in America.

I personally don't think there is anything wrong with desiring to be rich (unless that goal has become a God), although it is often talked down upon in religious circles. I've never seen a church send back a big check from a tither because he made too much money. In fact, if we took a poll I believe the numbers would skew very high for making more money, if asked "Would you like to make more money?" many would answer "yes!"

The bible says that God is the giver of wealth for his purposes. Yes there are evil people with money as there are good people with money. If our goal is to be rich (and not everyone really wants to work to be rich) then we must use restraint. Why wear yourself out? If God is calling you to be wealthy, then pursue his direction, advice, and counsel - pray for guidance. If your desire is to be rich at all costs, then it may very well cost you all you hold dear, then what have you gained?

"Are you stressed out?"

Proverbs 23:23- "Buy the truth and do not sell it; get wisdom, discipline and understanding."

What are you willing to pay for wisdom, discipline and understanding? I get calls from new clients who are interested in having me advise them on their business. After a brief chat, I first advise them to do their due diligence on my company to see if they think they I can help them.

That advice may seen like a barrier to some. I think it is a wise investment on their part that should help them to glean my work and determine if my company has the capability to serve them or help them achieve their goals. If they won't do that, then it really tells me a lot about the client and it frees up my time to work on projects that are of interest to me. After the potential client reviews my capabilities and they believe I can help them, then we meet. That meeting comes with a price tag. The price of the meeting tells me whether the client is serious about their business and if they value my hard work invested in learning the things I have learned about in Marketing.

As I have written in the past, wisdom and understanding comes with a cost. Are you making investments in it or are you too busy (mis-priortized time is a cost)?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Train a Child, Proverbs 22

2008-12-22T08:35:00.006-06:00

"Train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not turn from it."

Proverbs 22:6
My daughter Kayla, Green Belt Karate

Children teach us so much about ourselves. We want our children to have a better life than we did and to avoid our mistakes. My daughter Kayla and I trained for two years in karate and I was impressed at how quickly she learned and how good she was. She has a fierceness and aggressiveness in her that is downright scary. As a parent, it was comforting to know that she now has this training in her subconscious and the self confidence she has as a result of her training.

Children are like sponges. They love to learn something new and explore on their own. We should be available to train them in the path of life. Thise requires more active involvement and guidance.

"Like a Child"

Proverbs 22:15 - "Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him."

Spanking children is controversial, but the bible teaches that this is required when raising kids. My children know their are three possible outcomes to their decision to be disciplined. They know the consequences in advance and when they choose to be disciplined, I usually ask them why they made that decision. Their answer normally is "I don't know."

Three outcomes are possible at the corporal punishment stage. They have the opportunity to bring in new information. Maybe I misunderstood the situation and circumstances. Absent of new information, they will receive their "licks" or I may offer them grace.

I believe my children have learned more from grace. With grace they know that they deserve to receive a spanking, but because I love them I set that aside and we pray. We pray that they learned their lesson and they realize that God loves us and he often sets aside our punishment (but we never know what outcome he will choose).

Finally, there are times when grace is not offered and they pay the consequences for their actions. Those are sad and tearful times, but in the end our children realize that we love them deeply and want the very best for them. Fortunately, those times are rare in our household.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Desert, Proverbs 21

2008-12-21T18:22:00.006-06:00

"Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife."

Proverbs 21:19

This is a dangerous verse for a married man. My wife and I have been married for 28 years and we do quarrel from time to time. There are moments when she may be extra quarrelsome and she knows it. A verse like this comes in handy every now and then. Timing is everything. Saying a verse like this at the wrong time and one could become homeless very fast. Fortunately, one of the things I love about my wife is that she lets me be a man and she is a student of Proverbs and knows what verses like these mean to our relationship.

My wife knows I am not perfect and that my heart is right and that I can be courageous when the moment calls for it (she wants a strong husband). In our quarrels, she is testing my resolve, my commitment, and my desire to protect her to rescue her. We have learned to work out our quarrels and achieve peace in the home.

I asked her to go at least another 28 years with me today. We are on an adventure and every now and then we may argue over which path to take, but she usually trusts me to make the right decisions for our family.

"Marriage and Divorce" with Dr. Ed Young

Proverbs 21:9 - "Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife."

Sure beats living in a desert. I pray that quarrel is not commonplace in your home. I don't have an answer for how to workout an equilibrium with a wife who is quarrelsome. I have seen guys beat down by their lady. What are your thoughts about a quarrelsome wife? Or quarrelsome husband?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Miller Time, Proverbs 20

2008-12-20T10:03:00.007-06:00

"Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise."

Proverbs 20:1
Beer and wine have been around a very long time. In fact, the making of beer has been credited with the formation of organized agriculture and early civilization. The barley required to make beer served a unique purpose. The English and the Irish and Scotts fought over the English's attempt to tax their beer. The thought was that men were okay with the English taking their land and their women, but they drew the line at their beer (maybe a rewriting of actual history).

Egyptian Jewish slaves were rewarded in beer for their hard work building the pyramids and the United States Marines Corps was founded at "Tun Tavern" in 1775 Philedelphia and many a navy stock their hulls with rum and ale to sail the open seas.

Wine has offered a drink that does not need to be purified, the alcohol preserved well given the scarcity of water. Prisoners find a way to distill their own mash behind bars.

Food and drink serve their purposes. However, many have fallen into "alcoholism" and destroyed their lives. Some people have come dangerously close allowing excessive alchohol to impair their judgment. There was a time, when I was getting drunk every weekend (or so it seemed). "It was Miller time!" although I didn't drink Miller, "It's 5 o'clock somewhere" was the other mantra. Fortunately, wisdom prevailed and God has protected me from myself. I do feel very lucky to survive the era of 3:1 drinks and all night partying.

If you think you have a problem with alcohol, God can cure you of the abuse. I enjoyed what a prominent pastor has said, "God can cure you of alcoholism" he does not believe that "Once an alcoholic, always an alcholic." If you feel you have a problem with alcohol, there is hope.

"This Blood is for You" scenes from "Passion of the Christ" to song by Carman

Proverbs 20:3 - "It is a man's honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel."

In the age of instant gratification, political turmoil, and war, people are quick to show their contempt, air their discontent, and are ready to fight. Times are stressful indeed. How do we avoid being like "every" fool? Yes at times, I think we can be fools. We get caught up in a political argument, take offense at the tiniest of slights, and get in moods where everything and everyone seems to tick us off. It's hard to avoid a good fight every now and then. Especially, if someone is just begging for it. It is to our honor to avoid strife.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Dew, Proverbs 19

2008-12-19T11:34:00.009-06:00

"A king's rage is like the roar of a lion, but his favor is like the dew on the grass."

Proverbs 19:12

Morning dew is cool. I remember the "Mountain Dew" soda commercials and having my first swig, expecting something powerful from the taste. It promised the cleanness of the mountains and life in a bottle. I am not a Mountain Dew drinker, but know those who are and they swear by the stuff. As I write this post, I do have a thirst for it now.

Dew is evidence of a new day. "Favor like the dew on grass . . . " sounds like something worth having. It drips on our every being, it nurishes, it soaks our roots, it provides lifegiving abundance, and it can be seen in our lives. It is refreshing.

That is really how God impacts our lives. He provides the dew, the favor, the annointing, the blessing that we seek. Knowing that all is well.

I have heard atheists and darwinists claim that "religion is like knitting." They believe it is harmless and it gives people something to do. They have made science their God and worship at the feet of Darwin by worshiping the "husk" of life and stopping short of acknowledging the life giving force of God who made the science possible - they are spiritually dry.

They really don't know how ignorant their statements are and the discount how dangerous our God is (it's in plain sight, but they refuse to see it). He is fierce like a lion and he rages, but he chooses to show us favor.

"Dare You to Move" by Switchfoot

Proverbs 19:16 - "He who obeys instructions guards his life, but he who is contemptuous of his ways will die."

This verse is a matter of fact in its meaning. We have a choice and that is it. Our lives are songs to the Lord. A good song is memorable, it brings good memories and it lingers. A song that destroys, brings turmoil and disaster. It ends quickly and is remembered no more, except as a lesson and a warning to others.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.18.08 Half-Cocked, Proverbs 18

2008-12-19T07:50:00.009-06:00

"A fool finds no pleasure in understanding, but delights in airing his own opinions."

Proverbs 18:2

To be "half-cocked" has several meanings. One meaning may be to not have your wits about you and the other is to have part of the information required to get the job done. In the Marines it meant someone who didn't know what they were doing and is based in the history of not having their weapon ready to fire - "half-cocked" is dangerous in either scenarious.

We may have all of the bravado, best of intentions, but we may not ready to face the enemy. The enemy is that which steals the opportunity or hinders the plan of God. None of us want to be "half-cocked" and in today's spiritual climate we can't afford it. However, we may be just that.

Many believers are realizing that the stakes are very high and they are doing something about it. We are engaged in the spiritual battle for families, our friends in business, our nation, and each other. I have created a prayer list of 30 people I most admire in life, many of them I know and others I don't. I want them to be protected and pray that they hit a bullseye in their efforts and that they remain sensitive to what God is doing in these times.

"What's in your heart?" Pastor Kris Vallotto

Proverbs 18:13 - "He who answers before listening - that is his folly and his shame."

I am working hard at being a better listener. My tendency is to talk. I am a Marketer. A buddy of mine says "Marketers make the world seem so rosey!" He is right, mainly in that Marketers see the world in "possibilities", what can happen if everything works out right and fortunately, the do have a way of working out.

My job as a Marketer, dad, volunteer in the community is to listen. So, I am working on that more. People value listeners and if you and I are really good listeners, we will hear things others don't. Our database of knowledge, wisdom, and contacts is incredible. When we listen, we are able to capatilize more effectively. We avoid being half-cocked and more effective.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.17.08 The Producer, Proverbs 17

2008-12-18T17:57:00.005-06:00

"A wise servant will rule over a disgraceful son, and will share in the inheritance as one of the brothers."

Proverbs 17:2

"Ari Gold" Jeremy Piven of "Entourage"

I am a fan of the HBO Series "Entourage". Actor Jeremy Piven plays "Ari Gold" the "make it happen" Hollywood Agent who loves his clients and seems to pull a "rabbit out of hat" in crisis moments. "Ari" is a mensch who plays the game so well, without sacrificing his ethics. He is not beyond "sticking it" to those who deserve it, but he goes to war for his "Entourage" and comes out smelling like a rose. Not appropriate for this blog, you can do a google search on "You Tube" for "Ari Gold" and catch a few of his stunning quips and view of life in the trenches of Hollywood.

"Famous Failures" BlueFishTV

Proverbs 17:10 - "A rebuke impresses a man of discernment more than a hundred lashes to a fool."

Have you been rebuked lately? If the answer is no, then you are doing something wrong. People will tell you, you can't do something if you are doing something. They will blow you off if you are trying to make something big happen. They will ignore your e-mails if you have something to say. They will fail to return your call if you have a great opportunity. Rebukes are subtle. Don't let that stop you.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Wise Heart, Proverbs 16

2008-12-16T17:55:00.010-06:00

"A wise man's heart guides his mouth, and his lips promote instruction."

Proverbs 16:23

I don't know if I have a wise heart, but I want one desperately. I want to deal with people justly, to make the right decisions, to have a life that is blessed, and to help those who can't help themselves or who need the right advice and counsel. I like to be counted as trustworthy, gracious, thoughtful, considerate, and reliable. In a world of judgment, we often make decision too quickly and categorize people instantly. I have been guilty of this and have had it done to me. I have found that when I have made judgments about people, I have been wrong. In what sounds like a "Yogism" - "You never get to know people, until you get to know them", I have met some of the greatest contacts through the less likliest people.

It is better to value people, get to know them, and undertsand their needs, concerns, and personal life challenges. Honest interest in people opens doors for you and them.

"Why I do what I do" with Guy Kawasaki

Proverbs 16:19 - "Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud."

Sharing plunder is the act of taking from others what is not rightly deserved. The oppressed suffer the loss, but realize that God is in control and justice will prevail. This happens everyday around the world. The proud may boast in their limited victory, but judgment is just around the corner. Bad things happen to good people and when bad things happen, this makes us realize just how much we need God. When you got nothing, you still have God, and he takes you into a secret place that fortifies. He is our victor. A temporary loss is just that.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

An Apt Reply, Proverbs 15

2008-12-15T20:49:00.005-06:00

"A man finds joy in giving an apt reply and how good is a timely word."

Proverbs 15:23

An apt reply resonates in our soul. An apt reply is a thoughtful reply that appeals to our greater selves, it inspires, it captures our imagination, it commands our attention. We should give thought to our replies. I have a few thank you letters to send to a few special people. There is so much I want to say to them and my thank you letter sent in the mail will be more valuable than one sent by e-mail. Who can you write today?

Drill Instructor Interview SSGT Curtis Osbourne

Proverbs 15:31 - "He who listens to a life giving rebuke will be at home among the wise."

The Marines taught me to be confident in front of my peers and when speaking to superiors. In the Marines, integrity is what measured trust. Confidence was demonstrated by one's bearing and a Marine could spot nervousness a mile off. That discipline came with much shouting and persecution. The Marine Drill Instructor is a rare breed. For a season, nothing a recruit did was correct.

The drill instructor tore down new recruits until they realized that discipline in purpose and confidence in one's ability was earned. The world of the Marine was a place of honor and respect. We rarely get a life giving rebuke in our daily activities. People are afraid to speak up and let people go on their way making the same mistakes.

I enjoy teaching kids and there are often opportunities to give them life giving rebukes and many will try to challenge authority only to find resistance that they may not have encountered at home.

In my business, I must advise clients, fellow adults. Many times, they may not hear what I am saying to them and I have to be creative in how I get their attention. We need people who speak truth in our lives and I have learned to garner the attention and respect of my clients when a "life giving rebuke" is necessary. I have also been on the receiving end of a "rebuke" from them, but together we work towards a solution that will reward our efforts. We need people who know us really well and are confident in sharing their observations to help us stay on course.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

All Talk, Proverbs 14

2008-12-14T18:47:00.007-06:00

"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty."

Proverbs 14:23

"It's time for action!"

The director shouts "Cameras rolling . . . lights . . . sound check . . . quiet on the set . . . mark it . . . and action!" If you have never been on a movie set, it is an incredible experience. Prior to the movie being made, much of it is talk. The writers prepare for the story, colloborating on the screen play, pitching the film and recruiting the team, raising the money, selecting the site locations, negotiating use of equipment and locations, casting the film, and then comes production day. Time to go to work. In the movie world, talk is work.

Many people talk a good game, but when it comes time to doing work they are absent. This verse focuses on those who are all talk. They really don't come through on their talk. They "say" they will do things, but they don't or they talk so much, they rob themselves of opportunities. "Self talk" is meant to motivate one to do work more effeciently and effectively or to improve one's life.

Workers are always looking for more work. A respected business man I know says "I am not a show horse, I am a work horse. I have a world class work ethic." I believe the man, he works 7 days a week. He gets his rest within his work schedule. He lives to work and serve his customers. He has also built a fortune in the process.

"Work" with Pastor Mike Fabarez

Proverbs 14:24 - "The wealth of the wise is their crown, but the folly of fools yields folly."

I have many wealthy clients and friends and have a strong appreciation for successful business people. Many have gone through overwhelming odds to gain their status. Some have been homeless, othere saved from that shame by the help of friend, others have been humbled and given a second chance, and others have had their support withdrawn only to fend for themselves (which became part of the lesson).

In our culture it is easy to count the "dreamer" a "fool". A dreamer who "does" is someone who believes he can attain a crown. A "fool" is one who does not really want to work or attain his crown, he is only living for today. We have a culture of fools in this era. People who are not planning for the future, those who are not willing to sacrifice today for tomorrow, and those who are not learning (their brains are on autopilot). One of the first lessons in business is to do what you love. In fact, it becomes all you can think about. When it becomes your passion, then you are on your journey to wealth - if you work and plan for it!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Misfortune, Proverbs 13

2008-12-13T06:16:00.008-06:00

"Misfortune pursues the sinner, but prosperity is the reward of the righteous."

Proverbs 13:21

"Misfortune Cookie"

With the economy in criss, many are being humbled right about now. Layoffs, stock portfolio crashes, political turmoil, crazy weather and natural disasters, and institutional collapses seem to be the news of the day. In fact, you may feel like you are a target. Well you just might be.

The enemy has his sights on you and you are wide open. Ever felt that way? I have. Fortunately, I have the ultimate "OnStar" device, "GPS" locator, and "Blackberry" that reaches around the world and across the unknown universe. This resource gets my "Twitter" updates in nano-seconds. In fact, he already knows my plight before I do. He is my force field!

So, when you may be feeling like you aren't that important. It may be passed time to call on the almighty, creator of Heaven and Earth. The journey may be a little tough and you may have to do a little "relationship building", but he already knows your situation and knows what it is going to take to get you on the righteous path. It requires a little humility, but hey you aren't the only one being humbled in these times.

"Humility Linebacker"

Proverbs 13:14 - "The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, turning a man from the snares of death."

I need more wise advisors. I value the key relationships I have garnered over the years. I am building my network of trusted friends in business and in life that I can just let it all hang out. They inspire me and I hope I inspire them. Reached out to a guy to wish him a happy birthday and he replied that he was "glad to be alive." I could have missed something here.

I shared a story about my cousin Richard Valadez (43) who had just received a much waited heart transplant. This guy replied that he had just had 3 heart attacks himself and was bouncing back remarkably. Well, I have been fortunate to have caring family who have insisted on me having check ups and thankfully my docs have done a great job advising me on my family history and preventative measures. God is good and he will keep us from harm if we will just be sensitive to the clues that abound. I am very thankful that my buddy and my cousin have a new lease on life. God is gracious to extend our lives.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.12.08 The Counsel, Proverbs 12

2008-12-13T04:36:00.008-06:00

"Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge; but he who hates correction is stupid."

Proverbs 12:1

"Thirst for Knowledge" Portrait Unknown Artist

Discipline is hard. At first, it shocks, it may hurt, it may humble - then revelation. It is an amazing thing to be transitioned from mediocrity to elevated awareness and ultimately status. Our walk with the Lord is a series of discipline and he only disciplines the ones he loves; so, if you are getting a "life whipping", take heart things are changing for the better for you.

I cracked the oil pan to my 1985 BMW this week. This was the 3rd time in 3 years. I was devastated. The repair on a BMW oil pan costs $1150. This time I was lucky and didn't break any engine mounts (which would have added to the cost).

My Ultimate Driving Machine rides low to the ground (performance suspension, nice and tight) and the streets in Houston are wavy and bumpy. It was my own fault for driving a little too quickly while crossing the railroad tracks. I was rushing a client to a live a radio show after their appearance on a live TV show (we were in a hurry). I have learned to handle adversity with grace, the client never knew about my own situation (although I was doing all I could to contain myself). We made it to the station on time and I had enough engine power to get to the parking lot without an overheating problem or the engine locking up (the silver lining).

I could have done without this problem, but in the problem, I found opportunity. It drew me closer to God and I could hear him better. I think the situation gave me more power over the enemy. A derailed setback, actually became fodder to push forward, realization that God was still in control. I had messed up, but the facts didn't matter, God was moving me forward.

A buddy gave me a ride to an important meeting that I would have missed. It taught my wife and I once again, that we could bounce back from adversity and enter a new realm of faith (we now have a solution to the oil pan problem and our mechanic has suggested a buffer plate be installed).

"One Way Jesus" by United

Proverbs 12:3 - "A prudent man keeps his knowledge to himself, but the heart of fools blurts out folly."

I am a blabber. I am working hard to control my tongue. I am zealous and excited about what I see God doing and he has given me access to some incredible opportunties that require that I share them with many to gain the momentum that needs to happen on most of them. However, given the dynamics of my world, there is opportunity to share information that may actually "short circuit" an opportunity. Self-interested people could actually steal the idea or alert someone prematurely and have them withdraw their support, etc. In my world, timing and trust is everything.

So, knowing what to say and what not to say is a delicate balance. Fortunately, trusted partners makes it easier to share information with each other. Our tendency is to blurt out what we know, when we may need to hold back for the right moment. A little information here, a little there, and before you know it, you have got the attention of the people you want and then an idea can flourish and bless many people.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.11.08 Dishonesty, Proverbs 11

2008-12-12T07:00:00.008-06:00

"The Lord abhors dishonest scales, but accurate weights are his delight."

Proverbs 11:1

"Calibrated Weight Kit" for measuring

Are you a fanatic about the details? Accountants, engineers, and lawyers probably are, but Marketers are another story. However, that isn't to say that a Marketer doesn't make the details possible. Dreamers are the ones who make things happen, there are no accountants, engineers, or lawyers without the dreamer and doer. When it comes to the details, the Lord is fanatical about honesty. If he is fanatical about accuracy, shouldn't we?

"Honesty, Pass It On!"

Proverbs 11:23 - "The desire of the righteous ends only in good, but the hope of the wicked only in wrath."

Are you good or wicked? We have a tendency to judge ourselves by our own standards. It is easy to get comfortable with our own perceived goodness. Yet, there are many people in prison who are guilty, but claim they did no wrong - even murderers, child molesters, and thieves. The biggest challenge is to peel back the "onion of our own lives" and see ourselves as God sees us. We aren't as righteous as we might think.

Thankfully, we do have grace with God and opportunity to clean the slate and step up into the righteousness he has prepared for us that comes from wisdom and discipline. It is like God gives us a shocking revelation of our nature, enough that we don't hate ourselves, but we dislike it enough to make changes. If you have never had this experience, then you may be a little "self-righteous" ask God to show you.

Sadly, there are many righteous "posers". I believe we should check our spirt daily. Oh I know, I still have a lot of work. However, there are those special moments, when I sense God's approval, even though I may not have the approval of men. In the long-run, integrity and a resolve to do right wins the day. I love this verse. God is good, we should be too.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.10.08 The Diligent, Proverbs 10

2008-12-11T08:34:00.010-06:00

"Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth."

Proverbs 10:4

Are your hands diligent? If you own or manage a company, are the hands of your team diligent? How wise to create robotic hands that are always diligent based on the needs of the programmer and the application. Efficiency is critical in these times. However, many have gotten complacent. We fail to be diligent. We give up on our dream, our future, and we fail to enter the wealth and opportunity that God has provided.

"Never Give Up!" Rudy Ruettiger, WELL DONE AWARDS

Proverbs 10:21 - "The lips of the righteous nourish many; but fools die for lack of judgment."

Your lips can be diligent if you have something to say or offer others. Are you a reader? Do you like to communicate ideas with others? You intellectual capital has value. What do you know? Who do you know? How can you influence others and create value in these times? Before we speak, we need to evaluate the opportunties. Judgment is critical.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.9.08 The Meal, Proverbs 9

2008-12-10T21:38:00.007-06:00

"She has prepared her meat and mixed her wine; she has also set her table."

Proverbs 9:3

Do you hunger and thirst for the things of God? These are trying times. It is so easy to get distracted with our own personal problems, but there are always many worse than us. God wants to reach those people and he is looking for givers. Those who give their time, their talent, and their resources. The needs are many. He has prepared a feast for us. Food that blesses our spirit beyond compare. That used to be hard to comprehend, but when God is preparing you for greater things, then you hunger for the things that provide lasting nourshment and make you feel more alive than you ever have.

"The Hunger"

Proverbs 9:17 - "Stolen water is sweet; food eaten in secret is delicious."

Do you hunger for righteousness? Instead, do we hunger for the things of the world and satisfy our desires with substitutes? Are we "short circuiting" God's plan?

We may not steal water, but we may steal opportunities from others. We may consume off of the talent and influence of others. Have you ever been taken advantage of? Has someone stolen your time, an idea, or failed to pay you for a service rendered? I enjoy working with gracious people. People who value my time and people who know that I value them as well - that requires trust.

I love working with people who want to do the right thing. Unfortunately, the view of "right" looks different from the perspective of the other. How do we keep from stealing from each other and how do we add value to other? Be a giver, it always comes back.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Passion, Proverbs 8

2008-12-08T20:14:00.009-06:00

"Listen, for I have worthy things to say; I open my lips to speak what is right."

Proverbs 8:6

Our hearts are naturally hard. Are you sentimental? Do you cry easily? My young daughters break my heart. They can cry at the drop of a hat. When the water works start, daddy has to bring on the compassion and understanding. I have to deny myself and meet them where they are, until all is well. I relish in their sensitivity and wish I was as tender when it comes to people, the needs of the Kingdom, and my service to the Church.

Are you passionate about the things of God? I enjoy the moments when I feel like my motives are pure, that God is leading me to the next blessing, and my heart is yearning for his instruction. I just want to drop what I am doing, lift my hands in prayer, and soak in what he is speaking to my soul.

When those moments happen, I can't wait to execute the word he has given me, to act on that small whisper, before I lose touch, forget, or lose my nerve. My pastor says we were "made to worship." We will worship something or somebody. Worship is the passion of life. When our passion is focused on the things of God, we enter the miracle zone. How do you know when God is speaking to you?

"Amazing Grace" from the movie "Amazing Grace"

Proverbs 8:35 - "Blessed is the man who listens to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway."

What are you waiting for? What is worth the wait? What are you listenting too? Who are you listening too? Our relationship with wisdom is delicate. We must bear in, seek out her voice, and seek her out. We have many decisions to make on this Earth. We make many without giving thought as to the impact on the Kingdom, our families, and our lives. Fortunately, we have "grace" that covers our mistakes. This grace spurs us on to do greater things and to give grace to others. We are living in a time of forgiveness, we have to forgive and move on. Connect with those moving in the faith and push forward.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.6.08 Survive, Proverbs 6

2008-12-07T09:21:00.005-06:00

"Free yourself, like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of the fowler."

Proverbs 6:5
Have you ever trapped yourself with your words? My daughters know my "yes" means "yes" and my "no" means "no." They have taken my "maybe" to mean "yes." If I tell my children "yes" they will hold me to it, no matter how much I would want to "try" to change their minds.

Similarly, in business or in life. The more one increases in influence, power, and responsibility, the stakes increase. Even in harmonious living in your neighborhood, one must be careful what they commit.

Life is challenging! To avoid traps, this Proverbs verse helps us to realize that when we have trapped ourselves or placed our future in danger, we need to work it out.

"The Way of the Master" - Adultery with Kirk Cameron

Proverbs 6:32 - "But a man who commits adultery lacks judgement; whoever does so destroys himself."

Now, I love beautiful women, God does amazing work. However, lusting after them is another matter. As a happily married man, I have had to learn to not be a "lustful admirer" of women and that has kept me out of trouble.

Now, that isn't to say that I am "dirt free". The Lord helps us to get out of the pit of a sinful life. That is a daily renewal and dedication. We want to keep that slate clean.

I do know friends who have admitted their addiction to pornography and they work hard to battle that addiction. Anyone can give into their lust, that is the easy thing. The harder thing is to develop defense mechanisms that protect our lives. That comes brick by brick. To preserve our families, we have to build up our protective barriers. We see the headlines and media coverage of adulterous disasters. We don't want to be a statistic. Pray for protection, wisdom, and discipline in purpose. The stakes are too high!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Hooker, Proverbs 7

2008-12-07T09:17:00.008-06:00

"She took hold of him and kissed him and with a brazen face she said . . ."

Proverbs 7:13

Major General Joseph Hooker (Civil War era)

What did she say? Are you hooked? The origins of the name "Hooker" given to prostitutes is said to have originated in New York city prior to the civil war and possibly reinforced when General Hooker allowed his men to gallavant with the ladies of the evening. He allowed them to set up shop within the confines of the base and follow the boys on their way to war, collecting their military pay along the way.

Proverbs 7 warns young virile men to avoid these ladies on the prowl. The poor guy in this story never saw it coming. His curiosity got the best of him and he was no more.

"The Stethoscope" by Southern Hill Church of Christe Abilene Texas

Proverbs 7:24 - "Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say. Do not let your heart turn to her ways."

Are we tuning into the "God Channel"? Do we need a stethoscope or a some other device? What does the sound of our heart make? A burlesque show? A thief chase? A murder mystery? A family fued? An ever expanding adventure and glorious journey in search of the things of God like an "Indiana Jones" flick? What is the sound of your heart?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

All Tied Up, Proverbs 5

2008-12-05T18:30:00.010-06:00

"The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast."

Proverbs 5:22

Do you feel all tied up? Things just not going your way? I know I sometimes feel that way, but then something miraculous happens. The Lord sets me loose and I run. Sin can bind us up forever if we don't confess it or repent. I am strong believer in "Pray Until Something Happens" - P.U.S.H.

We are engaged in a battle on this earth. The battle takes many forms for men. We work hard, come home, zone out and live by remote control. We have been sidelined. Others get caught up in extra-marital affairs and they are side-lined. Many get involved in drugs and they are sidelined. When you become active in the Kingdom, then you become dangerous and a target to be sidelined. By grace we are set free and we need prayer more than ever to keep us free from the ties that bind. "Do you have what it takes?"

"Do I Have What It Takes?" a discussion with John Eldredge "Wild at Heart"

Proverbs 5:20 - "Why be captivated my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife."

Dangerous territory indeed. Just finished reading "Every Man's Battle" by Stephen Arteburn. In it cites the verse that has kept him from sin "I have made a covenant with my eyes" spoken by Job. When danger lurks, he has learned to "bounce" his eyes away from what has captured his eye. This training has enabled him to protect his marriage and keep his love for his wife vibrant.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

12.4.08 A Father's Wisdom, Proverbs 4

2008-12-05T13:32:00.012-06:00

"Listen my sons, to a father's instruction . . ."

Proverbs 4:1

"Father Know's Best" (from the 50's TV Series)

I have been reading "Who's Your Daddy Now?" by Doug Stringer. In the book, he talks about the "fatherless generation", those we call "Generation X and Y" or the "millenials." This generation needs the wisdom and council of a father. Doug writes the next wave of blessing will come from this generation. He cites the story of Rebecca who watered the camels of Abraham in Genesis 24 of the old testatment bible. In story she notices that the camels need water and she provided 400 gallons of water to 40 camels (a thirsty camel can drink 10 gallons of water).

All of the camels bore a dowry that was to be given to the bride of Isaac, Abraham's son. Rebecca didn't know that she was preparing a blessing for herself. She wanted to serve, she did the dirty work, she kept on it until the work was done, and she never complained. She knew her purpose. It wasn't glamorous until God stepped in and elevated her through her dedication.

Doug believes that God can use the fatherless generation to usher in the Second Coming, with the help of the church and those who are ministering to this generation.

"God Help Me" by Rebecca Saint-James

Proverbs 4:6 - "Do not foresake wisdom, and she will protect you; lover her, and she will watch over you."

In my business, there are so many opportunities to be misunderstood, categorized, or ignored. If you are in sales, then you know what that means. I am in Marketing, so it is much worse.

Lately, I have found many doors opening and I have to remember to really pray. I am excited by what God is doing, but sometimes the download can lose people. So, I am relying on the protection of wisdom to keep things in balance. There is so much at stake in these times and the value of relationships is so critical. A misunderstanding pushes timelines and objectives behind.

Lately, I have been getting a lot of laughs with my ruberic "In this business, you really have to forgive a lot of people." This comment seems to resonate, because in life we have to forgive a lot of people and work with them, even if they are a "stinky camel." There is so much work to do, keep serving. The camels don't care about you, they just want satisify their hunger or thirst. God wants to give you what is on their backs.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Waiting, Proverbs 3

2008-12-03T08:44:00.007-06:00

"Let love and faithfulness never leave you; . . ."

Proverbs 3:3

"Waiting for Pigs to Fly?"

We often equate faithfulness with marriage. We may often wait on our spouse to "get it", to "understand us", and we may get frustrated when we think they aren't being faithful to the marriage (in a variety of forms). Each spouse can be guilty of this. Unfortunately, the waiting becomes a wall and the marriage can suffer for it. A healthy marriage consistently works on breaking down those walls - it is a give and take. "I give, she takes!" Just kidding.

To be faithful applies to so many areas of our life. It requires patience, discernment, dedication, forgiveness, and renewal.

In business, one finds many with self-interests, the reason many consult lawyers and sign contracts; yet, misunderstandings do ocurr. A partnership in business requires trust and verification no matter how many documents are signed. Finally, faithful employees may not be rewarded for their lifelong commitment. Sadly, many in life have become negative, we become sarcatistic and our demeanor less hopeful. We lack understanding.

As Christians we may be waiting on the Lord for a much needed answer and waiting is difficult. However, we are called to be faithful. I don't like waiting either, but often we find that the waiting is part of the discovery.

"A Man Fell into a Hole" BlueFishTv.com

Proverbs 3:13 - "Blessed is the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold."

Where does one find wisdom and understanding? What are some of the ways you feed your mind and your soul? Is what you are learning adding value to your life and the lives of others or is it taking away value? How do you determine value? Is that valuation model correct?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Struggle of Righteousness, Proverbs 2

2008-12-02T09:45:00.008-06:00

"For the upright will live in the land, and the blameless will remain in it; . . ."

Proverbs 2:22

"Soul Struggle" by Frank Picini

To be righteous is to be set free from the pull of unrighteousness. The struggle is the daily battle to win this tug of unholiness on our lives. Fortunately, that battle has been won by Jesus Christ and as Christians we go through our own sanctification process. We enter into divine protection and guidance under the holy spirit. It is easy to claim to be righteous, but to live it out is more difficult.

As I study Proverbs, I am confronted with my past and my current life situation. I realize what a fool I have been. There is a struggle to dig in deeper with God and to seek his discipline, training, and to continue on the journey of discovery. I remember my 2 year training stint in karate. Each day of training was a commitment, the sessions were often very physically challenging and the discipline focus was demanded. However, each belt award was a reward for that patience and also a recognition of wisdom and knowledge attained. How much so in the gradation of the kingdom of God and our spiritual journey? What color belt are you? I am probably still at white belt (a beginner).

My heart's desire is to sever that which binds me to the past, to be set free from the things that have restricted my effectiveness for the kingdom. The lessons I failed to learn then, I hope to correct in the future.

"Be Strong and Courageous" with Todd Phillip (BlueFishTV)

Proverbs 2:6 -"For the Lord gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding."

Our struggles are not fruitless. The Lord is preparing us for greater things and bigger battles. We must do our part to be ready. There are many examples that we can learn from in business, in war, and in life. It is amazing to me how happenstances guide our curiousity. One thing leads us to a new discovery and a prompting to a new exploration. We must ask God for wisdom daily, beg him, and hang on to him. He will reveal it. Stay close to him and endure the struggle to become righteous.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Everything We Need, Proverbs 1

2008-12-01T10:53:00.008-06:00

" . . . for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life; . . "

Proverbs 1:3

We are so blessed in America. We have so many blessings we can't count them all. In fact, we may have too much (too much is when your stuff gets in the way of your relationship with God). I remember the Steve Martin movie "The Jerk" when he goes into his tirade, "All I need . . ." (click here to see the clip).

Make a quick list of the things you can't do without? In economic turmoil, we may be looking for ways to cut back. What if you had nothing? Would your attitude about God change?

Part 1: "I have all I need" Nick Vujicic

Part 2: "I have all I need" Nick Vujicic

Proverbs 1:33 - ". . . but whoever listens to me will live in safety and be at ease without fear of harm."

The #1 fear in the world, bar none is "Interpersonal Aggression" says Colonel Grossman, author of the book "On Combat". Colonel Grossman is the foremost authority on combat and trains the military special forces and elite police forces on how to prepare for this fear and to deal with it psychologically. The fear never goes away, but these professionals learn to recognize it and handle the symptoms as they arise.

This fear is bread in our genetic code from ages of human conflict. We have become adept in a modern society at sizing up a situation quickly when we park, step into a public place, and analyze oncomers (friend or foe analysis). Our defenses are automatic anticipating the "fight or flight" response should the need arise. What is your worst nightmare? Does it haunt you now? What helps you to overcome? The word of God promises a sound mind and encourages us to be as "wise as serpents and as innocent as doves."

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.30.08 The Trespass, Proverbs 30

2008-12-01T09:19:00.009-06:00

"Do not add to his words, or he will rebuke you and prove you a liar."

Proverbs 30:6

Depending on how familiar you are with the bible, there are many misquotes or misintepretations to be found. If you are familiar with it you will spot these instances of abuse or misapplication.

We are cautioned against misusing scriptures. Scholars of the bible do find revelation in the scriptures and offer insights provided by the era and its history. Many novices claim that one can make the bible support anything and thus it is unreliable and that is their justification for not reading it. That thought process has become an old cliche.

Yes, there have been cults that have arisen out of a mis-applied bible by its teacher; thus, the preface of the Proverbs 30:6.

The bible is called the "Sword" in Christian circles. Swords have a long history in civilization, requiring training to offer protection and offensive confrontation of enemies (not a bad thing and a Godly calling). Similarly, one should train and study the bible to discover its true usefulness to one's life. Its rich history and relevance continues to make it applicable today. You don't have to be a bible scholar to read the bible. On your journey, you will learn many scriptures and how to apply them in your life.

"Sword of the Spirit"

Proverbs 30:5- "Every word of God is flawless, he is a shield to those who take refuge in him."

Have you ever read the bible and discovered a verse that seems to have been written just for you or stood out in a way that you know it applies to your life right then and there? I have. I have read the bible cover to cover; although I must admit that it took me about 2 years to do so. I have have read many sections of the good book many times over. Now, my reading is like a meandering journey to rediscover meanings. There is history, art, prophetic glimpses, modern application, and wisdom. As part of our life's journey should include bible reading in order to stay relevant and fresh and inspired to live life.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Why We Bow, Proverbs 29

2008-11-29T12:32:00.006-06:00

"A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor."

Proverbs 29:23

Is it foreign to bow down and worship God? It is said that the most powerful postion one can take, when it comes to God, is to bow down before him. Acknowledging that he reigns supreme, to lay prostrate before him stronger. When we bow or lay before our father, we are basically surrendering all to him and allowing him to work on our behalf. He ministers to our soul, to our life. When we bow, we lose our pride. When we fall, we are already on the ground. God is gracious to hear us, when in earnest we seek to be what he has called us to be.

"We Bow Down"

Proverbs 29:1 - "A man who remains stiffnecked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed - without remedy."

When it is too late, it is too late. Atheist work hard at not believing that there is a God. Their necks are "stiff." My pastor once said "Atheists must be careful what they read or they will uncover their ignorance." It will be curious to me one day to see how God handles those who forced themselves not to believe what history has revealed over the ages. That in fact, there is a God and he reveals himself in so many ways through his word, through his son's sacrfice, the beauty of nature, science and discovery, and through the many miracles in our lives. I do not think that God wants to see any perish, but he has a clear line of separation and his justice is proven.

I think of a man like Saddam Hussein, who did not listen to wise counsel, but believed that his tyranny would endure. In the end, he faced justice by his own people and is no more. Not only did his stubborness cost him his own life, but that of his two sons who participated equally in his tyranny and his followers who bowed before him.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Law, Proverbs 28

2008-11-28T16:21:00.006-06:00

"Those who forsake the law praise the wicked, but those who keep the law resist them."

Proverbs 28:4

"The Ten Commandments"

The Ten Commandments mark the first time in 6,000 years of civilization a codification that has guided human civilization ever sense. The Jewish culture are credited for establishing the first system of justice (mandated by God) that has elevated man as a result. The "law" is a reminder that there are absolutes. A rebellious mind despises that and seeks wiggle room. When there is no "wiggle" room, then many want the standards tossed out. This has happened in America, in our court systems. The Ten Commandments have become the "Ten Suggestions." The law is very harsh to those who break it. We are cursed under the law, but fortunately there is a way out.

"Forgiveness" music video

Proverbs 28:9 - "If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law; even his prayers are detestable."

Well I haven't killed anyone, stolen, lied, born false witness, coveted, or committed adultrey, etc. we might say to ourselves.

But upon deeper analysis, we may find that we have done many of these many times over. Especially, if we read the bible to discover just what God means by "kill", "adultery", "idol worship", etc. It is easy in our era to turn a deaf ear to God's calling and the tugging of our hearts. He set the Ten Commandments as a reminder of our nature without God's presence in our life.

Our natural bent is to rebel. Generation after generation has been tested by the law and the law has prevailed. Fortunately, Jesus Christ teaches us that there is forgivness and though we may have to pay the consequences for breaking the law on Earth, we can be forgiven now and in the afterlife. That forgiveness comes at the cross, "foolisheness" to the wise (those that think themselves wise).

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Future, Proverbs 27

2008-11-27T07:13:00.010-06:00

"Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth."

Proverbs 27:1

I am a dreamer. I can almost see the life I want to build for my family and that really motivates me today, to do the things that may not make sense to others. Most of the people I know are hopeful about their future. However, it is easy to be so pre-ocuppied with tomorrow that we get "boastful" about our future exploits. That is a danger warned about in this verse. Plans change and people change over time. Doors open and doors close.

Yes, I have fallen in the trap of being boastful about the future. When I look back, I see all of that wasted effort, energy, and trust in that particular future (fortunately God saves me from myself).

We are never promised one more day. Let the Lord guide your future. Enjoy the day today, work hard for your future, but stay grounded. Your future in reality, may not be so bright as you think. Life happens.

Part 1: "The Future"

Part 2: "The Future"

Final: "The Future

Proverbs 27:25 - "When the hay is removed and new growth appears and the grass from the hills is gathered in, the lambs will provide you with clothing, and the goats with the price of a field. You will have plenty of goats milk to feed you and your family and to nourish your servant girls."

This verse reminds us that we should plan for our future, but to be grounded in today. We should handle the details of the day with a realization that it does impact our choices for the future. Sometimes it looks like life is menial, but one thing leads to another. I enjoy "vison casting" or visualizing a perfect future and dreaming big dreams, but realize that today is a gift, that there may not be a tomorrow. I have family or friends ask me about things 3-months out and I just tell them "I don't know, I am just trying to get through today." We to often are consumed about future events (some of the bad things that may never happen).

Matthew 6:34 - "Each day has enough trouble of its own."

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

On Honor, Proverbs 26

2008-11-26T17:12:00.005-06:00

"Like snow in summer or rain in harvest, honor is not fitting for a fool."

Proverbs 26:1

"The Medal of Honor"

The Medal of Honor is the highest award given in the military for gallantry and intrepidity. The bestowing of this award has gotten more strict over the years with a high majority given posthumously. Therefore, the value of this honor is more esteemed. Yet, many who have received the award, never call themselves heroes for risking life and limb. At the sight of this medal, every General and high-ranking officer must salute the bearer despite his rank, for he has proven his mettle in battle beyond any measure.

Honor on a fool is out of place. It is illegal for a person to wear this medal without it being awarded to them. The FBI prosecutes these imposters. Yet, many will attempt to fraudelently assert that they are a "recipient" of the award.

To honor someone is to state a truth about their character. It resonates in them. Do you know men or women of honor? Do they stand out in a crowd? Probably not, but honor has a way of making itself known.

"What makes a hero?"

Proverbs 26:8 - "Like tying a stone in a sling is the giving of honor to a fool."

I take it one would never tie a stone to a sling. It just doesn't make sense. Do you happen to know of instances where "fools" have been honored? Honor is a special recognition and should come with great care. I can think of many people that I honor for their work in ministry, in business, and those who are family and friends that have done incredible things for others. These verses tell us to reserve our honor. It should be a rare thing, otherwise it loses its value.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.25.08 A Hidden Thing, Proverbs 25

2008-11-25T13:04:00.010-06:00

"It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of kings."

Proverbs 25:2

Henry Ford with his V-8 Engine (one-piece engine block)

Henry Ford commissioned his engineers to design and build a V-8 block made in one piece (the foundation of his engine). His engineers said it was impossible, but he would hear none of it. He told them to go do it and he didn't care how long it took. The team continued to come back saying it was impossible; however, one day they had great news and the rest is history. Henry Ford then made it possible for Americans to own an automobile and spark the industrial revolution through the organization and distribution of labor.

We live in an era where information is available at our fingertips. Our forefathers didn't have this luxury. What thing is in your mind that you know God wants you to discover? What are you prepared to do to search it out? Ironically, the auto industry is in trouble and many of the leadership have managed to take the matter to congress to solve their dilemma. I submit that they may be searching in the wrong places.

History in the Making, "The Little Old Ford Rambled Right Along"

Proverbs 25:25 - "Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land."

Do you need good news from a distant land? Are you weary? A distant land in times of old probably wasn't that far in today's standards. What kind of good news do you need? Are there any weary souls nearby that could use some good news from you? Good news to a weary soul is great news. When we are weary, we just need that extra ray of hope. It will get us further on our journey, no matter the distance.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Kiss,Proverbs 24

2008-11-24T11:23:00.007-06:00

"An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips."

Proverbs 24:26
My young girls are enamored with the "Kissing Process." They claim to be experts at 8 and 5 and know all about it. They want to see the "kissing scenes" in the movies when we tell them to close their eyes. We see them peeking through their fingers as they giggle over the steaminess of what their eyes behold, if only for a glimpse. They see mommy and daddy kiss and they can't stand it. They know we love each other, so they know a kiss is something special. It is very affectionate.

Kisses are personal. Americans are friendly. We shake hands normally, hug, and often provide a kiss on the cheek for close friends. A kiss on the lips is a surprise, usually given for great news, very close friends, life saving information, or an incredible change in the outcome of a situation provided by a trusted friend or advisor. It can be unexpected and when done, surprise a friend or close associate.

How open are you to an "honest answer"? If you really care about someone and honest answer is like a "kiss". A special moment, a special word from someone who needs to hear it. Frankness is more curt, it lakes love, compassion, and sincerity to be honest. How do you balance an "honest answer" from "frankness"? Sometimes a tough answer is needed in a situation, those are easier to give. An honest answer takes thought and more difficult to give.

"Rescue" by the Seabirds

Proverbs 24:11 - "Rescue those being being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter."

A 9-1-1 call is an emergency. "Gunman has two hostages." SWAT is called to the rescue. You and I don't really have anyone to rescue? Or do we? As we survey the world, the internet brings us stories of atrocities. It seems that there is something we can do. That takes a personal commitment, like a kiss. We see starvation, disease, drug abuse, abortion, and violence and we may wish there is something that we can do.

I was at the red light the other day and a formerly homeless guy was collecting money for the drug interdiction charity that helped him. I didn't have any money in my wallet, but did have a few sandwich bags with $1.50 in change (that I use for tolls) when I am on the beltway. Well, I rolled down the window and gave him a bag of change. He was very thankful. Then I felt prompted by the Lord and gave him two more (all that I had). As I thought about this verse, it reminded me that, that little contribution would be helpful in the overall battle or at least it reminded me that I must be prepared to give my all in the battle.

Now, I don't advocate giving money to the homeless directly. They need to find their way to the many shelters who are trained and equipped to give them permanent help. The drug rehab charities are doing a great work and many of the homeless shelters would value direct help.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.23.08 The Eagle, Proverbs 23

2008-11-24T10:47:00.010-06:00

"Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly off to the sky like an eagle".

Proverbs 23:5

"The Eagle" sketch by Tony Galvan

The eagle symbolizes strength, courage, and freedom. Our strength, courage, and freedom doesn't come from from our wealth (or lack of it), it comes from God. He sustains us and gives our spirit ever increasing fortitude and at times, we can feel like we are soaring like eagles. If you have never felt that way, than I submit that you are not truly living. Something is holding you back, it is time to leave the nest and fly.

My journey with the Lord has been an every increasing spiral upward. Sometimes, there are swift altitude and "attitude" adjustments downward, but he is there to spur us upward. When we let go of our agenda, he has the gale force wind push us upward to higher heights. Our trust in him guides our future, our destiny.

I call my two girls "baby eagles". They are helpless now, but each day, each year, they look more like fearsome eagles. We may not feel like eagles ourselves. In fact, some times I feel like a clumsy turkey, stuck on the ground. If only we could see ourselves as God sees us, "his little Eagles, growing fearsome every day." It is time to soar!

"The Death Crawl" from the movie "Facing the Giants"

Proverbs 23:19 - "Listen, my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path."

You and I have been given the gift of leadership "Don't waste it." We have a monumental job in front us, but we have more in us than we realize. When you and I have used up what we think we have, we have more within us. That is our true treasure and value to our Lord. We may find that even when we do wind up in the end zone, the game is not over. The enemy needs to be resoundly defeated and that will take a team effort. The team is called the "Body of Christ". I am ready for a pile on!

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.22.08 The Runner, Proverbs 22

2008-11-23T09:17:00.009-06:00

"Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."

Proverbs 22:6
"The Runner" Body Worlds by Gunther von Hagens

Our children are our most precious possession. But we don't really own them, they are on loan from God. The bible says our children are "like arrows to the warrior", so train them well.

I used to love to run. I used to run 3 miles a day, lift weighs every other day, and enjoyed my Saturday morning runs in the New Orleans French Quarter, running among the awakening tourists. I would jog up from our apartment through Bourbon Street to Canal Street and back down Decatur Street to our home. Then I would enjoy a hot cup of coffee with my wife after my cool down.

I would feel so free and I do recall that I would just hang on to Christ, thanking him for every mile, every breath, and the second win I sometimes needed to go the extra distance.

I still value those moments, when I feel on top of the world, and the Lord is putting the wind in my sails. Check out this amazing testimony from Ryan Hall. Life is a marathon. We need to let go of the issues that hold us back and turn it on for God.

"The Ryan Hall Story" Olympic Marathon Runner

Proverbs 22:11 - "He who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious will have the king for his friend."

We often look to other's as kings and we will have some of this people as friends. The American culture values its celebrities, its successful people, and we welcome the opportunity to brush up against greatness. I value my database of contacts and the numbers in my cell phone database. Great people that I can call, high and low. Too often, we forget our relationship with the "King of Kings". He isn't in our blackberry, our Facebook, or Twitter account. We have instant access to the most high. This is a great reminder that we don't need to focus on impressing others, although if our "heart is pure and our speech is gracious" we will reflect the vary nature of Christ and we will have many kings as friends.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.21.08 The Fortune, Proverbs 21

2008-11-22T08:39:00.012-06:00

"A fortune made by a lying tongue is a fleeting vapor and a deadly snare."

Proverbs 21:6

My family loves Chinese food and the favorite part of the meal is getting the fortune cookie and reading our fortune. Many of the Chinese proverbs seem to match our perceived outlook and way of life. Most are positive and we laugh and agree with the glimps of the future blessing.

A friend once said that someone needs to come up with a "misfortune" line of cookies which may read "Your fortune is not so bright, please take another cookie." of course the next wouldn't be very favorable either. He believes, we may need a good dose of humility in our outlook.

We all want and expect a bright future. We may be saving for our future and may be working on building a financial fortune. Many fortunes are built on a lie and schemes are being prepared to separate us from our money.

The stock market crash can be traced to the idea of "affordable housing" which relaxed the rules on mortgage qualifications. It made it easy for people to qualify for loans they couldn't afford and some smart and savvy people accepted this and allowed for whole markets to be created around it. Then "group think" set in and more believed that the investments they were making in these loans were sound, then collapse - "a fleeting vapor". The country is reeling from this, blaming it all on greed, but in reality it was a lie from the onset. Those who were to blame are in "hiding' and in "blame" mode.

Anothe example, the lottery. I have never played the lottery with my own money. I have had friends buy me a ticket for "Christmas". When is a lie, a lie? The statistical chances of winning the lottery are so low, that is almost a lie or is it a lie? Many of the winners find that the events of their lives change so drastically that they don't know how to cope. Their fortune turns into a misfortune. Finally, the money and that fund was originally created to help some need is never fulfilled and then the taxes are raised on the people who supported the lottery legislation and those who didn't.

"Lose Your Life" music by the Blackstone

Proverbs 21:5 - "The hands of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to proverty."

There are no get rich quick opportunities. There are great ideas, plans, and partnerships that can lead to explosive wealth. In the end, it does take work and diligence, long-term sacrifice. Sam Walton didn't really start to accelerate his vision until he was 45, but he had been working on his plan for many, many years and already had a plan in mind. His tenacity and diligence lad to a critical mass that ultimately lead to explosive sustainable growth. He is long gone and his company continues to grow. I don't know if Mr. Walton was a Christian, but his life has helped so many Americans and now the world to save money and make their lives so much better.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

A must read for any entrepreneur, on growing great a company.

The Plow, Proverbs 20

2008-11-20T09:39:00.008-06:00

"A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest time he looks but finds nothing."

Proverbs 20:4
Have you ever been behind a plow? I have not, but I have worked on a farm with a friend of mine one summer when I was about 10. It was great being on the ranch until wake-up call at 5:00am. We ate a big, homemade breakfast with fresh eggs over easy, real bacon straight from the hog farm, grits, coffee, fresh squeezed orange juice, and home baked bread toast with jelly preserves. Breakfast was incredible. Then it was time to get to work and we did work all day. The other meals were just as fantastic after a hard days' work.

We had varied duties throughout the morming and afternoon like gathering feed bags to feed the hogs, we administered iron shots to newborn pigs, sexed the piglets (cut the tails off of the females for easier identification), walked the 10,000 turkeys (pull out the dead ones that got smothered during the night), and drive the tractor to plow up the soil. I enjoyed driving the tractor best. I felt like real rancher.

It is hard for me to imagine what it must be like to have to plow a field with a horse (or without one). That kind of work takes grit and determination. Yet, we are called to do just that in our business, at work, and for the expansion of the Kingdom. Have you spent some time plowing for the Kingdom? What kind of harvest are you expecting?

"Serve and Lazy" skit

Proverbs 20:13 - "Do not love sleep or you will grow poor; stay awake and you will have food to spare."

Have you ever tried to sleep with one eye open? I have, it doesn't work. While processing through Marine bootcamp in 1988, there was no time to rest. In the classroom, one could at least try to "fake" attention while trying to catch even just 1 minute of sleep. The object was to keep one eye open and close the other. Embarassing as it was, it was worth risking at the time it seemed. Of course, the drill instructors would catch an unsuspecting recruit like me and make a submission payment for the "snooze" that was darn right unbearable. Thus the saying the Marine Corps, "You snooze, you lose."

I think this Proverb encourages us to have a strong work ethic. There is always one more thing we can do, push our limits a little more, get something done, and benefit for that sacrifice. The 1% difference between overwhelming success and mediocrity. Time to dig in even further.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.19.08 Indescribable, Proverbs 19

2008-11-20T07:28:00.006-06:00

"It is not good to have zeal without knowledge . . ."

Proverbs 19:2

There is so much we do not know about God. We may have a zeal for him, but not truly understand his nature. He is indescribable, explosive, vibrant, fearsome, ever present, dangerous, and more. To be knowledgeable, we must seek him out and to study his ways, discern his activity in our world, and follow him. This journey never ends.

"Indescribable" live in the Netherlands with Chris Tomlin

Proverbs 19:11 - "A man's wisdom gives him patience, it is to his glory to overlook an offense."

From time to time, I remember my Uncle Steve, a former World War II paratrooper. He was one of the most patient men I ever knew. He used to tell me "Take your time, it will all get done, just take your time." He was diligent in his work, made time for breaks, and just always seemed at peace, never in a rush. So, I will remember him occasionally and "just take my time."

In our culture, we may be in a hurry to "blast" people for their failures. "Drop them like a hot potato" and cut off communication with people for a mistake made on their part. "Our time is valuable" we say to ourselves and to others, but we loose something when we get so impatient and discount people too quickly.

Some of my most valuable business relationships have taken years to build. A lot of water under the bridge before we have finally connected in a way that has built trust. You can find fair weather friends all day long, but bad weather friends are hard to find and hard to keep. You have to forgive a lot of people to be counted as trustworthy, dependable, respected, and esteemed and every now and then you might even be forgiven for your past mistakes. Be patient.

Want to see God, get a glimpse here: <Indescribable> (incredible 42 minute analysis)

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.18.08 The Gift, Proverbs 18

2008-11-20T05:41:00.009-06:00

"A gift opens the way for the giver and ushers him into the presence of the great."

Proverbs 18:16

Are you generous? Do you look for ways to give? Have you ever given your last dollar to someone in need? Sometimes it is hard to give money, time, or influence, but their is a unique principal in this. God is a giver, plain and simple. He really does give us more than we deserve. Our lot in life is unique to us. For whatever reason, our set of circumstances were given to us. It seems that we are the only people equipped with the ability to help others who really need our help. No matter how big or small our contributions, it can mean the world to only that person or population group (some of us are more blessed with resources than others, whole nations can benefit from their generousity). We may not even be aware of our impact, but God is.

Sure there are deceitful people and they will take advantage of you and the situation. They are takers. Give anyway and see what happens to you. Proverbs promises great things, to be ". . . usher[ed] into the presence of the great!" Powerful!

"Better is One Day in Your House" with Kutless LIVE in Poland

Proverbs 18:24 - "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."

Do you have a friend that you can call day or night for any reason and he or she will be there (married guys need to be careful about having close female friends)? Have you ever had to call them? Are you the type of friend who "sticks closer than a brother"?

I don't know if I have friends that "stick" closer than a brother or if I have been that kind of friend. This is a great reminder to build and seek out those people now, who are friends in the good times and the bad.

One of my close friends is a formerly homeless guy named Bill Adams. He has my cell phone and I have his. We have made a pact to pray for each other, to keep in touch every week, and be available. He doesn't have much, but his prayers and encouragement mean the world to me. As we pray for each other, we can see God at work in each other's lives.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Wisdom Feast, Proverbs 17

2008-11-17T09:33:00.008-06:00

"Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife."

Proverbs 17:1

Thanksgiving is fast approaching (one of my favorite holidays). I have had many great memories of feasts and thanks given over the years. I love sitting at big tables with lot's of people, each engaged in pleasant conversation and joyful to participate at the banqueting table. It is hard for me to imagine a table full of strife on this special day, but I imagine it must happen.

Now it is easy to be celebratory on special occasions. The day to day life is much harder. I have been at a table of strife on the journey to get through the day. I'm tired, my wife is tired, and the kids are cranky. We rush to put a meal on the table. Life is give and take and strife can emerge when we are only interested in taking (and we do have those days).

My girls are curious about why we pray over every meal. I love my youngest's answer "We want to pray over our meal, in case it got poisoned." That is one way to ensure that many of your meals are peaceful. It is a subtle reminder that God is in control and he has supplied our natural needs as well as our spiritual.

"Fresh Air for Christ" a narration by John Greene

Proverbs 17:14 - "Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out."

I once took my family for a little dock fishing trip. While we were there, a man accidently knocked another man's fishing pole in the water while he was docking his boat. The other man took offense and began to get upset and was starting to insult the other. Rather than drop the matter and resolve it, the two began to get into shouting match, which upset my wife and scared my two girls. We packed up and left as the two guys continued to threaten each other. I hope they didn't take it further, but we didn't stick around to find out.

I got the feeling that the guy who started the squabble had been in other skirmishes in his life. He had a chip on his shoulder. He felt wronged and wanted to take it out on somebody. His wife who was trying to console him, had been down this path before. I felt sorry for their family as we left, his daughter was crying and the whole family was trying to talk this man out of his anger.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.16.08 Faith Under Fire, Proverbs 16

2008-11-17T07:45:00.009-06:00

"A violent man entices his neigbor, and leads him down a path that is not good."

Proverbs 16:29

From the movie "End of the Spear"

Chance are you and I have never had to test our faith like many who have gone before us. Many of these faith stories are truly inspiring. To have such faith requires sacrifice and a shedding of our own will and agenda (that is really difficult). To be truly righteous is a life's work.

When reading Proverbs, I find that I have to place myself at a point of desparation. Placing myself in the shoes of others or visualizing a time of great need. Actor/evangelist Kirk Cameron likens it to "lion's den faith". Fervant prayer avails much.

I do recall watching the movie "End of the Spear". A movie about missionaries who chose to lay down their life for their faith. They had weapons to protect themselves, but they chose to reach out to a warrior tribe and died in their obedience to Christ. Their blood sacrifice led to an open door to reach this tribe forever.

Now, I am a former Marine and my inclination is to "lock and load" on target when facing dangerous people. It is hard for me to imagine, the faith it takes to trust in the Lord for the outcome. Found this incredible story, where the outcome wasn't so bleak, but risky none the less.

The Story of Missionary E. P. Scott, "All Hail the Power of Jesus' Name"

Proverbs 16:6 - "Through love and faithfulness sin is atoned for; through the fear of the Lord a man avoids evil."

To be faithful is to be in constant communication with our father. I often find myself second guessing my actions. Did I make the right choice? What is the eternal impact of decisions I will be making? Lord help me to make the right choice. How can we avoid evil? The Lord says to fear him. To love and to be faithful.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

11.15.08 Lord Move Me, Proverbs 15

2008-11-16T20:41:00.009-06:00

"The eyes of the Lord are everywhere, keeping watch on the wicked and the good."

Proverbs 15:3

"The Eye of Wisdom" by Speed

I am so thankful God holds everything in the balance. We see our microcosm of life and even in that, we don't have a clue. He manages the whole universe and we dare to question outcomes. The value of prayer is becoming a heightened need in my life. To seek out wisdom, to ask for discernment, to repent of my errors, to seek favor, to value righteousness. The Lord is prepared to use us and the most dangerous prayer one can pray is "Lord use me!" Are you willing to fulfull your calling in in the Kingdom? Would you dare ask God "to use you"? I dare you.

"Lord Move Me" by FFH

Proverbs 15:6 - "The house of the righteous contains great treasure, but the income of the wicked brings them trouble."

As I read this verse, I thought of all of the hope and plans that fill my home. If you were to count all of your blessings, you would see this to be true (try making a list). If God is going to use us, then he has great plans for our development. He has already deposited a great treasure in us in his son.

I dream big dreams, I see God doing wonderful things in my family. I can't explain it, but I have always believed that he has a plan for me, my wife, and my children. I see him doing wonderful things with family and friends, in our nation, and around the world. Now is the time to step forward.

We believe God for great miracles and hold nothing back. We get glimpses of what he has planned and it makes us want to work that much harder. He is indeed everywhere.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Pearl of Wisdom, Proverbs 14

2008-11-14T14:34:00.004-06:00

"The mocker seeks wisdom and finds none, . . ."

Proverbs 14:6

Wisdom Pearl by Richard A. Waters

I occasionally enjoy eating raw oysters. I once found a small pearl in one my oysters to my amazement. Pearls are made from an irritation. A grain of sand gets caught in the oyster's skin (so to speak) and it begins to excrete "mother of pearl" (I am sure there is a scientific name for this process, but I don't know it) over the sand grain until a pearl is formed.

We have heard of the "school of hard knocks". Similarly, wisdom may come at a great price. Many may have a string of "wisdom pearls".

"Holy, Holy" by Paul Wilbur

Proverbs 14:5 - ". . . but knowledge comes easily to the discerning."

It is so easy to get distracted and head off on the wrong track. I find myself stopping and asking God if I am on the right road. I have to tell myself "It's time to pray" or I may ask "Am I doing the right thing here Lord?" or "What should I do Lord?". It is hard to ask for advice and sometimes harder to take it. We think we know everything (or at least I do to often). Still, others have their "tuner off" and you have to help them to discover the right answer. What is the balance and how do we get to the pearl?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

Choose Life, Proverbs 13

2008-11-13T19:35:00.006-06:00

"Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life."

Proverbs 13:12

As I write this, my cousin Richard Valadez (42), struggles in ICU. He has had open heart surgery four times in two months to repair a heart pump that keeps slipping out of his heart as he waits for his heart transplant. He has a beautiful wife and three wonderful kids and a community that is lifting him in prayer as he awaits his miracle.

He is a Godly man and I know that the Lord will use this whole scenario to bring others to Christ. Please lift him up in prayer. Would love nothing better than to share his miracle with you on this blog.

Proverbs is a magnifying glass of decisions. Solomon reveals to us the choice we have at hand. Wisdom and knowledge give life to our being. So, if you have knowledge, but lack wisdom then you are lacking. The man in this video got a second chance. He has an amazing testimony.

Story of a Man Who Died and Comes Back to Life, the Reality of Heaven and Hell

"Choose Life" by Big Tent Revival

Proverbs 13:9 - "The light of the righteous shines brightly, but the lamp of the wicked is snuffed out."

This visual painted by the gentlemen's testimony is incredible. Will your light be snuffed out? It is so easy to get caught up in the cares of this world. When the reality of our days before the Lord is at hand, the seriousness of our choice is made clear.

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org

The Prodigal, Proverbs 12

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"Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food."

Proverbs 12:9
"The Prodigal Son" by Liz Lemon

The righteous and the wicked are so at odds. We often take our inheritance now, a substitute for the long-term benefit. Our country faces insurmountable debt and people are hurting - they need God to intervene, but they don't know him. The average American is $10,000 in hoc. We loved credit, we squandered the money, and we are left holding a big bill that compounds the interest like a ticking bomb. How do we get out of our mess, we wonder?

Well, we realize that we have to make things right with our father, that is what. Like the prodigal son, we realize that we just want to know what is right. We are willing to take the lowliest position. We wonder how we could have been so stupid and how we could have veered so far off course. Fortunately, our father does love us and he welcomes us with open arms.

"When God Ran" by Phillips, Craig, and Dean

Proverbs 12:15 - "The way of the fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice."

Are you, your worst advisor? We need more advice from the right sources. Who can best help you today to get you where you need to be? Ask.

People really want to help most of the time. I have found, the more you help people, the more they are willing to help you. Who can you help today? I am about asking these days. I need help and am open to receiving counsel and instruction from many who I respect in business, in their service to the Lord, and their desire to help others. Sometimes, we need to stop and listen. What is God saying?

On Mission, On Assignment, and in the ZONE!

Andy Valadez
e-mail: andy@marketingdynamics.org